Jesus, I need advice on this one. Anyone.
I met this girl a month ago in a weekend of formation for a job. We knew each other only by sight before (The world is such a small place), so it wasn't so hard after we realised who we were to begin conversation and everything.
The day after, we start holding hands. Seems to me like this is a sign of interest. But it's not limited to that.... Head on shoulder, taking a walk hand-in-hand, sitting closely together on a rainy night on a balcony. It goes on for another day, and we have to leave.
I call her back a day after, but whatever, she has weird parents. Let me explain: I have a very deep, manly voice for my age. (I hate saying this, but it's kind of true......)
When I call at her home, her stepmom asks who this is with a very severe voice, and I tell her who I am and if her daughter can call me back. *Later on, the girl will tell me that her stepmom didn't want her to talk to me again. She thought I was too old because of my f.... voice....*
Three weeks ago, we have another day of formation. She's there, great, we talk and she tells me if I want to go and see her at school during her lunchtime. No need to say I was happy to.
When I get there the day after, she seems happy to see me. She introduces me to her friends, we chat a bit and I must leave because classes are about to begin.
Two weeks ago, another day of formation. She's there, still great, we talk but here comes the catch: she shows me a book in which friends signed things because the school year ends (you know the thing, heh...) and there's this friend of hers that wrote a message that went something like: "oh and say hi to (myself) from me... I know you're going to go out with him!!!"
I could swear she was proud to show me this. It seemed like another sign of interest to me. So we continue talking and it was brought on the subject about this new movie, logically, I make a move if she wants to see it and she says yeah. I try to set up a date, she says one, great.
A week ago, we have yet another day of formation. She's there, it's always great, and we chat. Yet....... I wanted to bring back on the subject that date we were supposed to have (which was supposed to be tommorow, btw. I'm going to be all alone
) but when I bring it on the subject, she tells me that she'll be unable to make it, because of her stepmom (wtf?! lame excuse or true fact? see below)
I go back home and I feel horribly depressed. This goes on for two days or so, and one morning she calls me. She has a 3 hours break before her next exam and asks me if she wants me to come and see her. I was really surprised and delighted to see her again, so I went.
We went to hang around somewhere near school where her and her friends usually hang (same friends as before) and now we get some serious talking, not some smart-talk stuff. I really appreciated it, but I think it was made clear then that I was interested in her, and we were asked if we were going together. She said no.
Time runs up, we have to go. During this conversation, she paid me almost no attention. This itself, I don't mind, but I was really starting to think I was only in the background and all was over. Just as I begin to think about that, we get ready to go and while we walk she takes my hand. Now this really messes me up. I don't understand anything anymore. I'm starting to get my hopes back on.
When I have to leave, I say I'll call her back when she finishes her exam, 4 days later (today.) She says okay.
I call her. She answers. I ask her how it's going. She tells me she just finished school today, she's relaxing watching TV. I try to get a conversation on, but she kind of ends it abruptely saying she doesn't want to talk on the phone, just relax. I barely have time to ask her what do I do, call her back maybe? and she says no, she'll call me back someday.
...
Someday. That's great. Welcome back depression. I have no idea what the hell is going on. I just need external advice as to where this is heading to.
Edit: Before I forget, I want to know what I should do next, too. Call her back? She said _she_ was going to call me back. Is she playing the hard-to-get?!??! And even if she said this, should I call her back? I still didn't have a _real_ date with her or anything.
Thanks....
I met this girl a month ago in a weekend of formation for a job. We knew each other only by sight before (The world is such a small place), so it wasn't so hard after we realised who we were to begin conversation and everything.
The day after, we start holding hands. Seems to me like this is a sign of interest. But it's not limited to that.... Head on shoulder, taking a walk hand-in-hand, sitting closely together on a rainy night on a balcony. It goes on for another day, and we have to leave.
I call her back a day after, but whatever, she has weird parents. Let me explain: I have a very deep, manly voice for my age. (I hate saying this, but it's kind of true......)
When I call at her home, her stepmom asks who this is with a very severe voice, and I tell her who I am and if her daughter can call me back. *Later on, the girl will tell me that her stepmom didn't want her to talk to me again. She thought I was too old because of my f.... voice....*
Three weeks ago, we have another day of formation. She's there, great, we talk and she tells me if I want to go and see her at school during her lunchtime. No need to say I was happy to.
When I get there the day after, she seems happy to see me. She introduces me to her friends, we chat a bit and I must leave because classes are about to begin.
Two weeks ago, another day of formation. She's there, still great, we talk but here comes the catch: she shows me a book in which friends signed things because the school year ends (you know the thing, heh...) and there's this friend of hers that wrote a message that went something like: "oh and say hi to (myself) from me... I know you're going to go out with him!!!"
I could swear she was proud to show me this. It seemed like another sign of interest to me. So we continue talking and it was brought on the subject about this new movie, logically, I make a move if she wants to see it and she says yeah. I try to set up a date, she says one, great.
A week ago, we have yet another day of formation. She's there, it's always great, and we chat. Yet....... I wanted to bring back on the subject that date we were supposed to have (which was supposed to be tommorow, btw. I'm going to be all alone
) but when I bring it on the subject, she tells me that she'll be unable to make it, because of her stepmom (wtf?! lame excuse or true fact? see below)I go back home and I feel horribly depressed. This goes on for two days or so, and one morning she calls me. She has a 3 hours break before her next exam and asks me if she wants me to come and see her. I was really surprised and delighted to see her again, so I went.
We went to hang around somewhere near school where her and her friends usually hang (same friends as before) and now we get some serious talking, not some smart-talk stuff. I really appreciated it, but I think it was made clear then that I was interested in her, and we were asked if we were going together. She said no.
Time runs up, we have to go. During this conversation, she paid me almost no attention. This itself, I don't mind, but I was really starting to think I was only in the background and all was over. Just as I begin to think about that, we get ready to go and while we walk she takes my hand. Now this really messes me up. I don't understand anything anymore. I'm starting to get my hopes back on.
When I have to leave, I say I'll call her back when she finishes her exam, 4 days later (today.) She says okay.
I call her. She answers. I ask her how it's going. She tells me she just finished school today, she's relaxing watching TV. I try to get a conversation on, but she kind of ends it abruptely saying she doesn't want to talk on the phone, just relax. I barely have time to ask her what do I do, call her back maybe? and she says no, she'll call me back someday.
...
Someday. That's great. Welcome back depression. I have no idea what the hell is going on. I just need external advice as to where this is heading to.
Edit: Before I forget, I want to know what I should do next, too. Call her back? She said _she_ was going to call me back. Is she playing the hard-to-get?!??! And even if she said this, should I call her back? I still didn't have a _real_ date with her or anything.
Thanks....