"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hadow Khan

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Hi all,

I'm new to this forum, but ive been playing the game for a while. I started out with DeAngelos stuff, and im moving over to DJ.

An interesting situation here.

I had been building rapport with this girl for the past couple weeks, little bit of kino, but probably not enough. I go for the kiss, and she rejects, says no. First time this has happened (and yeah, ive been with other women), and she says "the only reason i did that is because I'm not sure if you like me".

What the ****.

I worked pretty hard to keep my intentions concealed till I actually went for the kiss, I was using negging appropriately (or so I thought). Its not like I'm gonna go up and tell her that I like her before kissing her.

Later she calls me, and tells me shes sorry.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hadow Khan said:
Later she calls me, and tells me shes sorry.

a few more attemps and you get big kiss
and then a few more attempts at next base, and you will f.uck her...
have fun.. and obviously keep in mind, she will get hooked.. dont forget to turn up the heat and smack her around (mentally) a little after u f.uck her so that she will do as you please...

ps... she obviously wants you.. u just caught her of guard.. thats all...
 

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She basically left you an opening to push into her. In other words, you very well could've landed that kiss if you said something like "Well tell me what you think after this." Girls always give out these tests #1 to make themselves feel like they aren't easy and #2 to see if you really have the balls to just do it. Rejections aren't always what they seem to be. Push the envelope a little bit. If she rejects, then she probably has someone else on her mind
 
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