So this girl started liking me and wanted a relationship, but I wanted to still meet other chicks and party bc it's my last year in college. Later on I realize that I'm not about that life and would rather much prefer someone to have an intimate connection with and I realize how much of an @ss I am for not getting with this girl.
I think what happened was that I suppressed my emotions and rationalized them away, thinking that I would be better off going to parties and fvcking multiple girls.
So I've tried going out and meeting other girls and doing the college parties, but it does not feel as meaningful and genuine as with this girl and that it what I want. Also, I just don't have time for that as a premedical student and on my path to becoming a physician. It'd be nice to have someone to go to after studying all day.
How do I maintain emotional control while still showing her that I'm interested and would still want her to come back to this state?
She puts snapchat stories of saying how she is going to go out and I always seem to have an emotional response to it. It almost feels as if she is doing it on purpose to show me. How do I deal with that? It feels like if I don't do anything she might think I don't care and not even come back to this state, but if I do do something I don't want to lose my frame and her respect.
How do I walk the fine line of letting her feel she can have me, while still retaining my frame? Every time I interact with a girl, I get a fear that I will lose my power by letting her have me because I feel vulnerable since entering a relationship or whatever would mean someone else has something that I want, but do not have control over.
Any Don Juan here that are physicians? How did you manage time for studying and working on game?
I think what happened was that I suppressed my emotions and rationalized them away, thinking that I would be better off going to parties and fvcking multiple girls.
So I've tried going out and meeting other girls and doing the college parties, but it does not feel as meaningful and genuine as with this girl and that it what I want. Also, I just don't have time for that as a premedical student and on my path to becoming a physician. It'd be nice to have someone to go to after studying all day.
How do I maintain emotional control while still showing her that I'm interested and would still want her to come back to this state?
She puts snapchat stories of saying how she is going to go out and I always seem to have an emotional response to it. It almost feels as if she is doing it on purpose to show me. How do I deal with that? It feels like if I don't do anything she might think I don't care and not even come back to this state, but if I do do something I don't want to lose my frame and her respect.
How do I walk the fine line of letting her feel she can have me, while still retaining my frame? Every time I interact with a girl, I get a fear that I will lose my power by letting her have me because I feel vulnerable since entering a relationship or whatever would mean someone else has something that I want, but do not have control over.
Any Don Juan here that are physicians? How did you manage time for studying and working on game?
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