Confused here...Hard to get??

[dixoadam]

First time poster..Just want to thanks in advanced for the answers.

Ill uses notes. Is this girl messing with me? Should I forget about her?
-At a restaurant bar and she sits right beside me
-Talk to her for 2 hours got her number
-Didn't text to much flaked on Wednesday date due to work
-made up date for Saturday and she followed through
-Got signs that she liked me (head on my shoulder, held hand, squeezed hand)
-Walked to my car arm in arm
-Made out when dropped her off
-Texted a bit after but got slow
-Didn't talk to her for a day and she texted me and said she got her hair dyed but i was in gym and didn't get the message and she was like "hello??"
-Texted her back and got nothing its been 2 days
-I'm am confused because we had a great time...any ideas?

Thanks again for any serious responses lol.

pretty much do I call her like on Saturday or just no contact?

 

[ChemGod]

Talk to her, sounds like shes into you. She thinks you are playing games with her so she is trying to play too. Just text her again and if she still doesnt reply than i guess move on.

 

[Roni_88]

Try to get an actual meet up with time and place.. if she cant and doesn't counteroffer move on,, if she does accept, escalate on the date with push pull.

 

[Yewki]

Didn't talk to her for a day and she texted me and said she got her hair dyed but i was in gym and didn't get the message and she was like "hello??"

I just can't imagine a normal adult doing this. A "hello??" because you didn't respond for an hour or two to her message about dying her hair? That is some stage 5 clinger stuff. Honestly I'd be weary of BPD.

Anyways she's probably embarassed that she showed her entire hand and has gone quiet. If you're still interested you should try to schedule another meetup sometime soon.

 

[dixoadam]

Maybe I should just call her on Saturday or something?
Our last message was kind of like inside joke and ended with my last text. She seems to always wait for me to have the last message and then stops. I feel like if I don't message her it will just never happen. So should I just try call her in a day and try schedule a date?