Well, I try to reserve posting here unless I really need the advice. I have been doing great with the girls and came across one girl that I really vibed with, definately a great catch. There's way too much background info but here is the jist of it. She came over to my place like twice, the first 2 times were really the only time we had been alone and really had time together. She came over to "work" on some music stuff with me, but honestly i think it was just an excuse for her to hang out with me. This girl is a good girl, and I mean good girl. We had a great time together "working" on music, I started off slow knowing her background, and did everything right, she seemed to like me alot. The last time she came over, I turned it up. Escalted everything and kept getting great responses (this was the 2nd time we hung out seriously). Honestly had one of the best times ever with a chick, she had it all personality and looks and was very respectable. Basically, she gave me soooo many hints and flirted so much. She asked ME to do a number of things: watch movies and tv at my place together, go out to the movies, etc...she even said my couch was so comfortable she would sleep on it haha
I thought I was in, she left, didn't go for the kiss, got a big hug and she told me to let her know when we are getting together next. Honestly, I thought it would have scared her away...so we made plans to hang out and watch a movie (where I was definately getting that kiss and more haha). Here is where it gets confusing. She basically asked ME to hang out, so I call her and she says she can hang out if she is back from work. I don't hear anything from her at all, I called once to see if she was back from work and she didn't pick up. I gave her the cold treatment and Sunday rolls around and she said her phone broke and she was "Soooo sorry and didn't want me to think she was ignoring me". I told her no big deal and made plans for the following tuesday. She says she can! but then texts me back that she forgot she had plans and how she was an idiot for forgetting. I was like whatever and told her if I had time I would make plans with her later. A few days pass, and I text her (while in class) to watch a movie at my place, she says she might be able to, but her sister is leaving for school and she might be spending the night with her. She said she would let me know...a day passes and she is with her friend and texts me asking to come over to my place, I being a DJ was with another chic lol and declined (figured it would only help anyway). She was kinda mad/playful but asked me what I was doing, etc...I flirted playfully back and kept her wondering
Finally today was the day she was supposed to let me know if she was coming over to watch a movie, and she didn't send me a text, call or anything to at least to say that she couldn't make it. So now I don't know what to do? She seemed so interested and now has been acting kinda weird. She is leaving for school in a couple weeks so I don't know if that is it, but she is moving back next semester and kept "reminding" me that she was coming home from good after next semester. Basically, I thought I was IN but now have no idea. She may be playing "Hard to Get" but Im not sure. I figured Im going to cut off all contact until she contacts me...what do you guys think? Thanks!