confused girl in tricky situation

[EWJ]

Basic training

first off there is this girl that i met at work.I had seen her around the store a couple times but had never made a move. I work with her mother and she was the one who introduced us. Now after talking with her she kinda just grew on me and caught my interest. I did the whole ****y n funny routine and was pretty busy so she knew i had a life. But when i went in for the kill she hit me with friends line. After that i just backed off and played it cool like it didn't bother me.

Now this where the transformation takes place. i didn't call or txt for like 2 days and on the 3rd day she calls me out the blue but i was busy. The only thing that i told her was that i was kinda preoccupied. I called her later that night and she was saying that i was blowing her off n she was mad. i was already mad and she just wasn't helping so i just calmly but firmly told her off. after that she apologized and after that i immediately noticed a difference. Now she speaks to me in a real submissive and softer tone of voice. the kino has picked up greatly and no matter where i go if she is with me she is standing at my side. She went on trip to Florida with one of her friends for a week and she called every night and was quick to point out if i didn't answer her call. when they came back her friend said that she just had to meet me because she talked about me all the time while they were there. Another thing is that her mom tells me everything she does and her mom says she just lights up whenever my name is brought up. she also gets real touchy when people ask if were together and i very bluntly say NO. She will be like well u didnt have to say like that.


Now the tricky situation is she just went to basic training. just when everything was getting good it all gets snatched away. the thing is she wants us to write each other and me to come to all the visitation days. She even came and hung out with me at work . So now i'm wondering how should i go about this because 2 months is a long time for me to wait. but i want to at least try something because if a relationship does come out of this i feel it could go a long way.

 

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Its killing my eyes to read that block of text.

 

[WC2]

first off there is this girl that i met at work.I had seen her around the store a couple times but had never made a move. I work with her mother and she was the one who introduced us. Now after talking with her she kinda just grew on me and caught my interest. I did the whole ****y n funny routine and was pretty busy so she knew i had a life. But when i went in for the kill she hit me with friends line. After that i just backed off and played it cool like it didn't bother me.

Now this where the transformation takes place. i didn't call or txt for like 2 days and on the 3rd day she calls me out the blue but i was busy. The only thing that i told her was that i was kinda preoccupied. I called her later that night and she was saying that i was blowing her off n she was mad. i was already mad and she just wasn't helping so i just calmly but firmly told her off. after that she apologized and after that i immediately noticed a difference. Now she speaks to me in a real submissive and softer tone of voice. the kino has picked up greatly and no matter where i go if she is with me she is standing at my side. She went on trip to Florida with one of her friends for a week and she called every night and was quick to point out if i didn't answer her call. when they came back her friend said that she just had to meet me because she talked about me all the time while they were there. Another thing is that her mom tells me everything she does and her mom says she just lights up whenever my name is brought up. she also gets real touchy when people ask if were together and i very bluntly say NO. She will be like well u didnt have to say like that.


Now the tricky situation is she just went to basic training. just when everything was getting good it all gets snatched away. the thing is she wants us to write each other and me to come to all the visitation days. She even came and hung out with me at work . So now i'm wondering how should i go about this because 2 months is a long time for me to wait. but i want to at least try something because if a relationship does come out of this i feel it could go a long way.

Great! You're on your so-called "training wheels" when it comes to attraction. You've flipped her from a friend into a possible target, but I don't think you entirely know why she is acting this way. Well maybe you do, but even more importantly..

You need to realize that this is not a isolated situation.

This is how almost ALL women work.

Knowing this, it's a good time to start changing up how you approach women. I know by now, you've probably noticed that she started wanting you more when you did these things :

1. Stopped being so nice
2. Stopped catering to all her needs
3. Told her that your time is yours and she can't always have it.
4. Called her on BS (this whole you blowing her off) with no hesitation

Now, start doing this with all women. And not because you WANT to just to get them in the sack, but because it's a great way to live with women

While 90% of the male population is waiting hand and foot on 100% of the female population, 10% of the birds on top are picking at whatever of those women they want. And why? Because they follow rules just like the ones I stated above.

Some men are naturally of the 10%. Others learn to change their ways after grave failures. It doesn't matter. All you need to know is that 10% is an elite group of men who share the women. You're on your training wheels right now, but you're about to come off...

How do you get them off?

Keep true to all of this and stop worrying about this girl. She's leaving for 2 months so she's really not worth anything to you right now. I could see if it was your wife, but right now she's nothing more than a possible target.

Continue what you've been doing, but there's no need to chase. You're better than that. You chase women and you put the training wheels right back on just like a little kid.