"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Confused- dating at 24

sambwoy

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I have never had a girlfriend and I have come to a stage where I am trying to find what I want to be. I am totally confused maybe because I have never got in the game. Also my self-esteem and outlook is low because I feel I am getting older, and social and communication problems.
With women, what should I consider with younger or older women, such as age, experience etc?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Borknagar

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Dude when I was your age, I felt the same way. Your best years can still be ahead of you, they may be next year, they may be 5+ years from now. 24 seems so long ago now and most women around that age are much more attracted to me now then when I was 24. I'm 32 now. Don't let age scare you so much, back then I was scared ****less of turning 30! If you take care of yourself you won't even age that much either.
 

CJ 101

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Borknagar's right, dude you're still you, when i got into the game i was 23 and a total AFC but i devoted myself to this lifetsyle and 7 months after that i was doing things that i thought were impossible before, just devote yourself to this lifestyle and i guarantee you that you will see results....you've got your whole life ahead of you.
 

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