Hey guys, first time poster. Got a bit of confusion here.
I met this girl about a month ago, who turned out being a friends best friend\ex roomie. Weve gone out a lot since then, been introduced to her friends,etc. Everything was going great...then suddenly, something happened. I went out last week, she asked me to come see her at the bar she was at, so I did. Her eyes light up, get large...as usual, im greeted by her friends, then I sit by her. We talk a bit, and I notice she was dancing in her seat, so i ask her to dance...and she said no..she.. Didnt feel like it...i knew something was wrong...
The night goes on, last call happens, last few songs, her friend asks her to dance, she says ok (wtf). Then her best friend comes to me and is like "why arent you dancing wirh her?", and I told him something was wrong..He insisted "trust me man, she likes you alot "
Then she turns around, looks at me and stops dancing, then comes to me and sits Anyways, song ends, they kick everyone out everyone, her friend tries to lead her out, she stops, waits for me, then links arms with me, and we walk out..
Now comes the mind****.. I give her a ride home...we get there, she turns to me, and I ask "is everything ok?"...she pauses and says shes afraid for some reason and she knows shes pushing me away, but isnt sure why. Then mentions that her last bf wouldnt let her go out, and was very jealous. I told her that wasnt me, she can do what she wants, and that if shes pyshing me away, it just means im not the guy for her, and that I wasnt angry. And she was like "no....i really like you..." And I said "its ok", then kissed her forehead, and hugged her...then she stalled in my car, and kept sayin she doesnt know why...then she says "can we go out as friends"...my heart pretty much sank, not gonna lie. But I said yes.. Then she stalls longer...and said "....can I have another hug?", then she dashed towards me, and buried her face in my neck, squeezed tightly, and I hugged back and said "its ok.."after a couple seconds I go to pull away I realized she squeezed tighter, and didnt want to let go...she held it for like 40 seconds...then finally, it stops, she stalls a while,then finally leaves, and tells me to call her when I get.home.
Fastforward to saturday... (2 days after the talk)...she asks me if im.going out, and asks where. I told her, and she said she didn't know if she was but maybe shell see me....then later that night she asks me if im out yet, where at, and tells.me to come to where she is. I take my time, and head over. When she sees me, her eyes widen, and she gets so excited...this time was no different.... She.introduces me to her friends, follows me around the bar, and everytime id disappear, shed come find me... Then she started asking if I was staying,and said she was tired...in retrospect, I think she wanted me to give her a ride home, lol. Anyways, finally she leaves, and gives me a hug....tells me bye, but she looks very sad when she does it....starts to walk away but comes back hugs me again...then walks towards the door, all the while looking back at me, still upset looking.....and blows me a kiss...
Im not sure what to make of this. She denies me, but has trouble leaving me....her body language towards me is still that of a girl whos interested.... Something doesnt add up... Any feedback would be awesome. Thanks!
I met this girl about a month ago, who turned out being a friends best friend\ex roomie. Weve gone out a lot since then, been introduced to her friends,etc. Everything was going great...then suddenly, something happened. I went out last week, she asked me to come see her at the bar she was at, so I did. Her eyes light up, get large...as usual, im greeted by her friends, then I sit by her. We talk a bit, and I notice she was dancing in her seat, so i ask her to dance...and she said no..she.. Didnt feel like it...i knew something was wrong...
The night goes on, last call happens, last few songs, her friend asks her to dance, she says ok (wtf). Then her best friend comes to me and is like "why arent you dancing wirh her?", and I told him something was wrong..He insisted "trust me man, she likes you alot "
Then she turns around, looks at me and stops dancing, then comes to me and sits Anyways, song ends, they kick everyone out everyone, her friend tries to lead her out, she stops, waits for me, then links arms with me, and we walk out..
Now comes the mind****.. I give her a ride home...we get there, she turns to me, and I ask "is everything ok?"...she pauses and says shes afraid for some reason and she knows shes pushing me away, but isnt sure why. Then mentions that her last bf wouldnt let her go out, and was very jealous. I told her that wasnt me, she can do what she wants, and that if shes pyshing me away, it just means im not the guy for her, and that I wasnt angry. And she was like "no....i really like you..." And I said "its ok", then kissed her forehead, and hugged her...then she stalled in my car, and kept sayin she doesnt know why...then she says "can we go out as friends"...my heart pretty much sank, not gonna lie. But I said yes.. Then she stalls longer...and said "....can I have another hug?", then she dashed towards me, and buried her face in my neck, squeezed tightly, and I hugged back and said "its ok.."after a couple seconds I go to pull away I realized she squeezed tighter, and didnt want to let go...she held it for like 40 seconds...then finally, it stops, she stalls a while,then finally leaves, and tells me to call her when I get.home.
Fastforward to saturday... (2 days after the talk)...she asks me if im.going out, and asks where. I told her, and she said she didn't know if she was but maybe shell see me....then later that night she asks me if im out yet, where at, and tells.me to come to where she is. I take my time, and head over. When she sees me, her eyes widen, and she gets so excited...this time was no different.... She.introduces me to her friends, follows me around the bar, and everytime id disappear, shed come find me... Then she started asking if I was staying,and said she was tired...in retrospect, I think she wanted me to give her a ride home, lol. Anyways, finally she leaves, and gives me a hug....tells me bye, but she looks very sad when she does it....starts to walk away but comes back hugs me again...then walks towards the door, all the while looking back at me, still upset looking.....and blows me a kiss...
Im not sure what to make of this. She denies me, but has trouble leaving me....her body language towards me is still that of a girl whos interested.... Something doesnt add up... Any feedback would be awesome. Thanks!
