"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Confused at this point

Poppa3

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Here's the story

Well at my work we get these "volenteers" that come in and work. Well one day One came in and felt i had to talk to her.
I seen she had no clue where she was going, so i asked her if she needed help, then i walked her to her destination, talking on the way, then we said our goodbyes. Before it was time to leave i took an ice tea out to her because it was like 90 degrees out and she is working outside. She thought that was the nicest thing, so we got the talking again for about 25 minutes but she had to get back to work, so i number closed and left......(this was monday)...Wednesday approaches and i give her a call, NO ANSWER, i left a message sayign who i was and so forth.. She never calls me back, then on friday of that same week i see her again at work, and she comes to me and says..."you never called" i said yes i did and i left a message, she said she didnt get it, Then said well i gues i have to get your number and call you.. I said cool. So then when she went outside to work, she called me that nexst minute just to make sure we both had each others numbers and told me to call her that night and that she has off sunday maybe we can do something.....so i call that night..NO ANSWER>..then on monday she called back and said her sis was in the hospital out of town and she stayed with her...I thought to myself okay, thats understandable...So i tried calling again wednesday, (my day off) and yet again no answer...So im getting ready to go into work in an hour and i am going to see her.. How do i act?

She is defitnily interested, she is very flirted, and seems like she is the one showing kino.. She said "i already told my mom about you and she said i should ask you out" and she laughed...

On a side note..she just got out of a relationshiop not to long ago, and she said he calls her still trying ot get her back, but she rarely answers....I have mixed feelings about it. I have my opinions but would love to hear yours..thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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S1NN3R

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Maybe she just has a RAZR phone. I have people tell me they called all the damned time. :D

Seriously though, no matter why your calls don't get answered, you need to do something else. ditch the phone attempts and just set-up a date on the spot. If she goes for it, you're golden. If not for whatever reason, you can try the phone thing once more, but beyond that you'd better really like her to be leashed around like that.
 

Poppa3

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lol at the Razr comment

Well yesterday (friday) she did not show up to do her volenteering, so i wont see her until monday now..And still no call back.. I dont know whats up. So im thinking about giving up on this one, however its not over cause i am gonna see her again....so i dont know
 
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