Ive been in a LTR for eight monts and i was wondering how to keep Interst Level up. We get along really well, but i was wondering how often i should see her a week? and how often i should call her? Basically, should i still seem like i dont care as much even after eight months? Thanks you guys, it would really help me out.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
confused and needing dj advice!!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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read the damn bible again........
But if u dont do it
Initiate Kino more often
But if u dont do it
Initiate Kino more often
LordBrian
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This is probably the best advice in this vague situation... Also, girls love drama. *maybe* (thats maybe) you should let her catch you flirting with another woman. It would make her relize that you can get another woman if you wanted, therby making her want you more.
Girls love drama
Personally. I just want to sit down and get tang without trying... while watching a close game between the Redskins and Cowboys!!!!! wooooo