"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Confused and in need of help

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i started going out with this girl this week and i can't say it is going good. i only see her in the hallway of two classes and after school. however, she used to text me alot and go out of her way to see me. now that we are going out, she doesn't do any of that anymore. I find myself texting her and most of the time she doesn't even answer back. im not sure what im doing but she is definitely losing interest fast and i dont know what to do. anybody have suggestions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WaRpEd

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Holly crapadoodledo man, allright BACK UP!

First and foremost, why are you even worried in the first place? Are you long lost star crossed been married for 20 years lovers? NO! Though I'm sure she's cute theirs no reason for any I repeat ANY stress in the first place, you'll give yourself ulcers...:nono:

QUIT TALKING TO HER! yea yea your dating, so what? You're constantly texting her!? quit that! IMMEDIATELY! Now, she's probably a lost cause already, sorry bout that, but you were an AFC. Now quit acting a fool and start acting more like the man that your supposed to be.

REVIEW THE BIBILE IMMEDIATELY!!! :trouble:
-WaRpEd
 

Bawb14

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Whoa whoa whoa warped, maybe not give up so easy. Girlfriends are scarce these days! But yeah for romantic intentions, your screwed. Try the whole transition into friends thing which makes u look like the guy whos breaking up with her but only not so much as a **** but more of a choosy picky guy, plus 1 more friend always helps ! =))
 

Joe The Homophobe

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do what warped says and at least if she dumps you she will do it while you started acting like a man rather than a nice guy love puppy. She might regain her interest (i doubt it) she might not but at least you started acting the right way.

you could be exaggerating this btw, maybe she is actually busy to keep track of all your nice guy texting and love sick text messages, just maybe??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bawb14

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Then keep her that way if you feel things arent moving the right way, duuuh.
 
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