"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sexy_kuta

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alright, i always get confused on this part and im sure other people too

this hasnt been covered in the bible yet

when your looking for a LTR you go hunting for girls that fit your standards right?

so when you meet a girl and u got her number..

and u called first after a few days,... after that call.. you should be calling her for the first few weeks or does she have to call you?

i was thinking if she is calling and doing it alot then she is seeking attention and we dont want girls like that,

so i think its best to call them and have them to aviod calling you right?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by sexy_kuta
alright, i always get confused on this part and im sure other people too

this hasnt been covered in the bible yet

when your looking for a LTR you go hunting for girls that fit your standards right?

so when you meet a girl and u got her number..

and u called first after a few days,... after that call.. you should be calling her for the first few weeks or does she have to call you?

i was thinking if she is calling and doing it alot then she is seeking attention and we dont want girls like that,

so i think its best to call them and have them to aviod calling you right?
woah dude , your overthinking.....

jeez.....

have you ever thought shes just calling u cuz she likes you and is wondering why u dont call her.... ?

just cuz she calls you dont mean that shes an atention ***** .....

an AW is a girl who need constant reasurence of her worthiness... not a girl who just cals you to talk ....
girls like to talk , they are yappermouth creatures who like to share emotions and stuff....

and btw there arent any specific guidline rules to dating , there are only probabilities... just cuz one girl would ask you one time how she looks doesnt mean that shes an atention ***** and that you should dump her imdiately....

use your own judgement and stop relying on other people
 

sexy_kuta

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yeh i think i should lighten up

i just dont want a girl whos all clingy and im just looking after myself,

i would hate to meet another AW, im afraid thats all

she hasnt called me yet, but she got my number last night when i talked to her,

i wanna see what kind of girl she is. if she is material enough
 
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