Confused about something . .

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

I get the concept of "inner game" (not even close to there yet but I have a grasp on the concept), and not caring too much if a girl is into you because there are a billion out there and you don't need them . . but when a girl messages/texts, why wouldn't you respond? When a friend does it, I respond, especially when I'm stagnant somewhere (office job) or at home bored.

So wouldn't you respond to the girl? I mean . . when you purposely start playing games and saying "Nah I'm gonna play this cool and purposely not respond ever/in a few hours" isn't that the fake crap that this "inner DJ" would reject because it doesn't matter?

I have a Myspace message right now . . when I start thinking like someone who doesn't need this girl, it feels like I should respond. I mean, why the hell wouldn't I? The not-responding feels more like an AFC thing to me.

Or is this all my one-itus rationalizing responding? I know, over-analyzing, but if I don't analyze and play it naturally & confident, it feels like the right thing to do is respond to this girls messages/texts, which is said to look bad.

 

[Lifeforce]

Just freaking respond. Inner game isn't about waiting a set amount of time before calling back or sending a message back. It's all about your view on yourself.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

That's what I thought . . it seems so simple, but the next article I come across about "not seeming desperate" spins everything around.