One of the best ways to get women is to be seen with other women.
It is ten times better if those women are having a good time, laughing, flirting with you, touching you, whispering in your ear, even tounging you down on the dancefloor.
Social Proof is one your most powerful weapons.
Chicks are lazy. They would rather take the advice/proof from other women that you are fun/worth being around rather than finding out for themselves.
So, nexted friends can be used for this purpose. Assuming they really are having a good time with you, helping your game etc. (see final comments below)
Two things about social proof chicks.
- You are not buddies. You do not talk for hours on the phone with her. You don't go out together in on-on-one type situations where you won't be seen by other women. You don't waste your valuable time with her. Her sole purpose is to attract other females to you.
- If you still have feelings for her, it can not work. It will just hurt you and your game. You can not show, (more like actually have) any jealousy if another guy starts macking her etc. You can not fall for her little flirting tactics assuming that things have changed now and you might have a chance with her now. You can not hang around her hoping that, one day, when she sees the real you, she will then fall for you. It very very rarely happens. If you still care for her, you must next her completely until you're 100% over her.
As Final Comments, however, chicks always say they want to be "friends" after a break up. It doesn't mean they actually want to. They just don't want to be the bad guy. They don't want there to be friction when you two meet up again. They say it because they think good girls always say that.
If you try the friends thing or the social proof angle and she still
- acts like a b1tch, or
- continually acts negative to you, or
- makes fun of you in front of other people or behind your back, or
- tries to screw up your game with other women, or
- gets totally jealous about your new prospects even though she doesn't want you, or
- she still has some negative effect on you (Ex's having a funny way of bringing you down regardless of how you might feel about them),
... you must next her completely of course.
Most of the time when chicks say they still want to be friends and you agree with her, this is what happens. Its actually Anti-Social-Proof