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Confused about girl's reaction after kiss

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So I met a girl (HB 8) through a mutual friend who gave me her number. First date was an uneventful coffee date on monday, then on thursday she texts inviting me to a singles party on saturday. I went to the party and it was just an informal get together with some of her close friends to see if someone would hook up. She was very excited when she saw me there and commented a couple times she thought I wouldn't show up. The party was a disaster, just some drinking and kissing games with not much success among the crowd. There were some long term male friends of her trying to ****block me (her female friends were pleased with me) but she spent a lot of time around me talking and touching my legs and arms. She was dissapointed about the outcome of the party and all of her friends' attitude and had some drinks.

When I told her I was leaving, she told me just leave don't say goodbye to anybody and she walked me to the elevator.

When she started saying goodbye, I pulled her close and said "I don't need to spin any bottle" and went for a kiss. Initially she was surprised but kissed me back and we started making out a little. Then she just stopped and pressed her face against mine. When the elevator arrived I turned around and as I got in the elevator she slapped my butt hard and slammed the apartment door shut when she went in. As I walked away from the apartment building (some people were on the balcony) I heard "that guy just kissed him!" and some cheering.

I just don't know how to interpret the butt slap and door slam.

What do you think?
 

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This is interesting. I must say that your plan to kiss her was pretty spot on. I hope they weren't screaming "that guy just kissed him!" I think you meant her but not that there is anything wrong with that :)

The butt slap is pretty odd but I think you got this chick in the bag in terms of banging her. She seems like she would want to throw down with you and what not. The door slam is meaningless i suppose. Either way, you come out a winner my man!
 
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The buttslap is great, man! That seems like an uninhibited, fun, playful girl. She was all riled up after that kiss. She may very well be a firecracker in the sac. Full speed ahead on this one! Go get her.
 
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I agree with the above.

She wants to b#ng you.

A chick slapped my arse once at the end of the first date. She was all over me on date two. It means that she sees you as a boy toy of sorts lol.

Not a bad place to be at all.
 

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Butt slap is key. You'll tap soon enough. Well played.
 
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...and the problem is?????
 
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sometimes i feel like i need a really big facepalm...
the threads where a guy asks " i kissed a girl and she was all over me after it, i dunno what that means" is too damn high.
 
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CrimsonPanther said:
sometimes i feel like i need a really big facepalm...
the threads where a guy asks " i kissed a girl and she was all over me after it, i dunno what that means" is too damn high.
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Hahahaha! Maybe they're just looking for reinforcement, to celebrate their new found "success" with people or for a chance to have their egos polished.

To the OP though, it's a no brainier obviously, so hurry up and fvk her brains out.
 
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cervantesscthree said:
Hahahaha! Maybe they're just looking for reinforcement, to celebrate their new found "success" with people or for a chance to have their egos polished.

To the OP though, it's a no brainier obviously, so hurry up and fvk her brains out.
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i have no problem with that, there is definitely a place here for some success stories/ego boosters/motivation for others. but then it should be delivered like that, else the OP seems stupid or hypocrite.

to OP: bone that broad good :D
 

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Thanks for your replies, I don't think most of us come here for an ego boost. Succes stories do have place if there is a lesson to be learned.

I started this post because women's reactions are are always confusing and situations different.

In the case of this girl I can tell she was into kissing me, but the notoriously hard butt slap and door slam made it seem like she was upset.
 
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