"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Confused about email chick sent me

StevenR

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I am on this online personals site, and some chick, out of the blue without me contacting her, sent me an email with a "devil" emoticon holding a pitchfork, nothing else. Not sure what this means or how to respond. Any ideas?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ask her if she is in need of spanking. And let her know that you can arrange a very very good one.
 

AKA FLEX

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Sounds weird to me, especially considering that you're 34. That's something a teenage girl would do. I would probably forget about that site and head down to the bookstore or coffee shop to pick up chicks.
 

StevenR

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hehe...she is older than me, by one year. For some reason I get alot of emails from older women on that site, it is Plenty of Fish FWIW. I guess sex from an milf/cougar is better than nothing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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StevenR said:
hehe...she is older than me, by one year. For some reason I get alot of emails from older women on that site, it is Plenty of Fish FWIW. I guess sex from an milf/cougar is better than nothing.
Older women know how to fvck better.
 
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