Hey man I know where you come from. Yeh a lot of the stuff on this site is hard to get when reading because its all practice. It took me a couple weeks to understand what went wrong with my past and how I could fix it. Before, I thought that making fun and busting on girls would be a one-way ticket to hell, but now its fun and they like it. To me dating girls is like a sport. You can't get good from just reading about it, you need to go out and try it. The first couple months will be hell because you have no idea what is going on and how to fix it but slowly, trust me, it gets better.