"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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confuse hea...help plzzz

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ok i dont find any of these dj thangy to b helpful...if u find it helpful dhen can u tell meh ur point of view bc mayb i juss look at it at a wrong angle or other words i juss dont get it....thankz
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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They work if you apply them at the right times.

It takes practice. You can't just walk out there and think that you're going to do the best possible job.

On the first couple of times, you'll mess up...eventually, it comes to be natural.
 

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Hey man I know where you come from. Yeh a lot of the stuff on this site is hard to get when reading because its all practice. It took me a couple weeks to understand what went wrong with my past and how I could fix it. Before, I thought that making fun and busting on girls would be a one-way ticket to hell, but now its fun and they like it. To me dating girls is like a sport. You can't get good from just reading about it, you need to go out and try it. The first couple months will be hell because you have no idea what is going on and how to fix it but slowly, trust me, it gets better.
 

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Nobody here knows "ghettospeak". Ask a more specific question, and you might get the advice you need.

-Damian
 

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^^The guys been on IM a lot lately and is used to abbrevating words.LoL.

In my opinion the DJ life is not just about getting girls,getting girls is what comes with this life.You don't actually understand the benefits?Well,who wouldn't want to be more liked in society,feel good about himself AND have a chick or two in his arms?I'm sure you would,because I know I do.

The benefits are loads.Get good at the life and you're gonna be at the top of the world.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Try putting in a little more effort in to your post, that way we can help you more. Make the title more relevant to the post, spell your words fully, give us more details on your situation (for example, what dj principles did you try, what was the situation, how did the girl react, etc) and if your feeling generous, maybe even proof your read your post for us ;)

Thanks,

- S
 
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