"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Confronting the past for the new year.

SamMalone

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Is confronting your AFC past a good idea? I moved before becoming a (somewhat) DJ and was asked to go back to old home to hang out with old friends. Is the past better left forgotten or would it be a huge confidence boost to confront my old friends and let them see how different I am?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eccentric

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No, because you shouldn't have to prove yourself to anyone. But rather improve your self from within. LOL I'm pretending to be smart here.

Success is the best revenge. But once you've reached that stage, you shouldnt care about how others see you.
 

Kaptain

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Eccentric is right.

Bragging is not DJ.

If you have a genuine interested with hanging out with your old friends sure why not.
 
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