Confronting her stalling...

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

MaddXMan

Senior Don Juan

Sep 6, 2005

Originally posted by joekerr31
stick to your guns dude. move on and forget her.

and you are probably right, she probably will end up calling a few more times.

At which point maybe you take her out and bang her and forget about her for good after that.

nothing pisses off a chic more than when they kill themselves to get your interest, you bang them, then forget them.

that will teach her a lesson.

but regardless, you can't count on her calling you. so mentally move on from her.

J

Done.

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