Confronting her stalling...

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

MaddXMan

Senior Don Juan

Sep 6, 2005

Originally posted by joekerr31
stick to your guns dude. move on and forget her.

and you are probably right, she probably will end up calling a few more times.

At which point maybe you take her out and bang her and forget about her for good after that.

nothing pisses off a chic more than when they kill themselves to get your interest, you bang them, then forget them.

that will teach her a lesson.

but regardless, you can't count on her calling you. so mentally move on from her.

J

Done.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.