"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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this girl im interested in,a little background info, she once liked me,a few months back for like a week and i found this out 2 weeks ago..briliant.

we have always mucked around and "flirted",but she has always said in one way or another she only wants to be my friend nothing more,but then when she is drunk or even sober sometimes she is all over me,hugging me,sucking my neck,trying to hit me in the balls,licking my face just the general kino stuff,when she sleeps over my place i give her backrubs,and we get REALLY close,but then bang back to step one it seems,she sends so many conflicting messages... is there anyway i can do a test to find out if she is a pretender or the real thing? ....

last night,i was pretty annoyed at her (she didnt know) and she came and stood next to me,and i sorta moved away (to protect my balls cause i thought she'd try hit me) then she goes "ohh fine i wont stand near you then.." and walked away,and for the next 10 minutes she seemed really cut-didnt say a word,ignored people when they talked to her,then suddenly starts talking again like all is good,and for the rest of the night she kept asking me why i wouldnt kiss my ex,when we said bye that night it was asif she didnt care,was just the plainest goodbyes,i got cut cause i didnt get a hug *oh how afc*,but i didnt show her,im just going insane wondering what she wants....

i can NOT tell her i like her,it'd ruin everything with this one,trust me on this one,and i dont wanna next her yet,i have this weird gut feeling she is hiding her feelings for me,and she'd hide them because my ex is her best friends and all of the principle bull**** girls go on about,the only way i can change this is if SHE tells me she likes me,or we get drunk one night and kiss,which almost happened once,i need help......

im going insane in wonder,and my lust for her is eating me alive,although ive NEVER acted afc with her,ive read fingers post about "escaping the friendzone" and the only thing there i hafto do is make her think i have high standards but juding from my ex,that'll be hard to do hahaha....... anyone here? can help me on this one? im going insane here,i just need to find out if she is the real thing...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i've been into the the same situation.. take her out, get her drunk,tease her to the extreme, and she is yours...
 

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by the way, after than she is not gonna talk you.. she would probably hate u.. you gotta take this risk..
 

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ohh ok thanks for the reply's,any idea's on how to test/play this situation?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yes... getta big glass of "No-more-oneitus" and watch her beg for you when ur with other chicks.

If she see's you with the other chicks its gonna do 1 of 2 things... she'll either beg for attention and show you how she feels, or she'll find some other guy and try and make you just as jealous... either way your better off... even tho im a chronic junkie...oneitus sux
 

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im going insane in wonder,and my lust for her is eating me alive

She knows the effect she has on you bro; her ego must be sky high right now. This girl is enjoying every second of it.

Personally, I don't have the patience for this type of behavior. Hugging you, sucking your neck, hitting your balls, licking your face...are you kidding? This would annoy me very quickly because it's immature behavior.

You should totally distance yourself from her; she should 'know' that she's annoying you. Will she be pissed, probably, but who cares? It would be a win/win situation for you. Why? Here are two reasons.

1. If she is 'really' into you, she'll do anything to get your attention, including talking it to the next level and stopping with the childish behavior.

2. If she gets mad and stops talking to you, then you don't have to deal with her nonsense and 'mixed' signals anymore (you don't have time for that crap). You can move on to a more mature girl.

See what I'm saying?
 

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i know what you guys mean and thanks for the replies,its just its conflicted whatever i do cause i value her friendship,also in a few days she is gonna stay at my place overnight alone me and her for drinks and her friend that ive had probs with is out of town,this will be a perfect opportunity with what ive told you guys,how do i approach this night? ... 1.i cant let her know i like her,2.she HAS to make the 1st move.....

whats the best way to game this,i was thinking teasing her alot,and getting as close as i can to her but in a mucking around way,what u guys think?
 
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