Conflicting Ideas

[theapprentice]

The Dj bible says that the better man can be independent of women and learn to improve his life first and learn to love himself etc. before he thinks about women. Then there are the psychologists who say that men have a built in NEED to interact and deal with the opposite sex. That is not just a desire but a need that compels us. So how can we try to act impervious to women when we are screaming for their attention inside. Most people wont admit it but only the experienced players will ever feel like they really dont care about women in their lives, since they already have had so many. But like me and most of us who havent had much play, trying to be emotionally independant of women, and trying to not care whether or not a girl liked us or not is rather a biological impossibility.

Especially in our society where women dont regard men with much regard, most men get left without much say in their interactions with women, leaving men thinking about women all the time, but women free to think about whatever they want and at a snap of the finger have 10 guys running. Women get all the men they want but men dont get all the women they want.

Then with all logical prowess leads me to conclude that men will most definately think about and desire women more than women will desire men, since our need is left unfullfiled most of the time.

Since in our society women dont take well to stranges talking to them, and that the only pick up scene is a club or Bar but where the women are so pretnetious and that talking to women on the bus and or anyother place is a threat to them, its no surprise men think about women when we have so many few options on meeting them and having relationships.

**** the flamers who have nothing better to say.. You know its true

Sorry that had to be said...people think there being cute by making wise a*ss comments.

Man's life will revolve around women since essentially we all crave a healthy relationship and I dont care who you are, deep down everyone does to some extent or most people do. When your hungry you can only think about food and your belly, starve your contact with women and watch what happens to most men.

 

[theapprentice]

anyone

I guess no one is willing to challenge me?

 

[Desdinova]

I'll bite...

So how can we try to act impervious to women when we are screaming for their attention inside.

I think I have a fix on your problem. What you need to do is embrace your natural desire to have attention from women, and even over-indulge in your natural desire.

What I want you to do is go out and find seven women to date - one for each day of the week. Then, return to this post and read it.

 

[theapprentice]

lol

When I look at this post when I have 7 women to date, I will laugh till I run out of breath thinking wow, I am cant believe I felt that way.

Find me 7 women who will like me when I constantly think about them and when I will perdicatbly act needy before I have 7 women.

Catch 22

 

[Desdinova]

Go find them yourself. I've also got a news flash for you: AFCs can get laid too! It takes them a few years, but it happens.

You've got lots of information here about how to pick up women. Even by purely using techniques, you've got an advantage above the average AFC.

when I will perdicatbly act needy before I have 7 women.

Act as needy as you fukkin want, just don't stop pursuing other women. Work on your neediness problem later. Focus on approaching, conversing, number closing, and dating first.

 

[Vulpine]

The Dj bible says that the better man can be independent of women and learn to improve his life first and learn to love himself etc. before he thinks about women. Then there are the psychologists who say that men have a built in NEED to interact and deal with the opposite sex. That is not just a desire but a need that compels us. So how can we try to act impervious to women when we are screaming for their attention inside. Most people wont admit it but only the experienced players will ever feel like they really dont care about women in their lives, since they already have had so many. But like me and most of us who havent had much play, trying to be emotionally independant of women, and trying to not care whether or not a girl liked us or not is rather a biological impossibility.

Ok, what the DJ bible is trying to change in you is how you measure your own personal success. AFC's base their success on women whereas DJ's have learned to base this "success" on their own lives: becoming "independant" of women. Then, the rAFC begins to realize "Wait, I'm great! These women are lucky to meet me!" Through this confidence and independance, rAFC's begin to have success with women. It is really only AFTER the rAFC realizes he has his sh!t together that the success with women happens. By building confidence and independance, you do two things: 1. eliminate the things that turn women off. 2. Become a better person regardless of interaction with women, thus build your confidence and independance WITH women.

Sure, the "need" is there. But that's why one does the boot camp and reads the bible - to ultimately quench that thirst for women. The need is the motivation. It's not a conflict, it's the cause.

Mindsets needs to be changed, outlooks need to be reformed, and the overall image of the former man needs to be recreated and these changes are what those exercises facillitate. If you were a loser who lived his life to please women, the DJ Bible attempts to make you see that if you live your life and become a winner, women will be pleased. If a woman isn't pleased, find another woman that will be.

By the way, women think about men as much, if not more, than men think about women. AFC's constantly think about women. DJ's are too busy with their lives to waste all that time thinking about women (or ONE woman), so the power shifts.

 

[Tomatoes]

It seems this post is looking at fundimental ideals.....

Basically appreentice you would agree you are looking at things in the "Big Picture". The biggest picture infact. Ok....now think of it this way. There is a rough equal on sex throughtout the population (give or take a few million). Doesnt this mean that both the demand and supply of men and women will reach an equilibrum state?

Men think about women alot. Women think about men alot. Belive whatever mith you want but women cant just whistle and say "here boy" and have 10 guys. Thats just bullsh!t. I agree women have a little bit more social influence. If you have ever seen a teenage girl mag they are talking about how to get boys at about 12! We are still playing Armies in the back garden!

When I brought my AFC a$$ to this site back in November. I thought that the idea of not showing women attention to get thier attention was abit silly. It does work that way......however i still dont understand why.

I embraced the ideals shown here along with the techniques and I have more success since christmas than I had in 19 and a half years of life before that. The Dating game is just that.....a game....and you have to know how to play.

When you play poker.....when you have a Royal Flush do you shout it out mid way threw the hand? No! You play it for the most chips possible. The same applies for women. When you meet that women of your dreams you dont instantly have to go screaming it from the rooftops while proposing to her on the first date.....

If this site teaches you anything it will teach you timing, technique and it will give you confiedence. I come on here now and I know that there is a load of AFCs here seeking help......But there are even more out there not doing anything about it. This seriouslly gives us a good handicap in the market. Even if a women can click her fingers and have 10 men........Just make sure your number 1.

Stick around and see if this place helps your sucess.....Try new things. Leave your comfort zone. Dont fight ideas you fear.


Sarge On!