Confirming that its a date cool/lame?

[tomwesten27]

Hey guys, long time reader first time poster. This site has helped me a lot and I have solved a lot of my girl problems by reading these threads but I do have a question for myself today if you guys could enlighten me please.

Is it okay to confirm that its a date with a new girl you just met?

I am 24 and tend to take out a lot of college/younger girls. I have success with hooking up with girls because I feel I am very smooth with my words. It's just something that comes natural to me. But when it comes to actually dating, finding something serious, it seems to mess up for me. I don't know why

I met a girl at a party and asked her out recently and she goes "I don't want this to be an official date or anything." I was like uhh yeah lets just hang as friends. Later I made the move to kiss her and she went with it, actually seemed to get into it, but then stopped herself saying "I don't want to give you the wrong idea." then she kissed me again later that night lol.

Should I bother seeing her again without "confirming" its a date. I mean how do you say "HEY THIS IS A DATE RIGHT I AM NOT WASTING MY TIME!?" without actually asking?

 

[Skyy.]

"I don't want this to be an official date or anything."

Did you use the word date when you asked her out? Young chicks don't like to date, they like to hang out.

See, putting your d!ck in young chicks is like petting a pvssy cat. The pvssy wants to be petted, so it rubs up against you to give you a hint. Once you give it what it wants, it's happy and walks away. The longer you don't give the pvssy what it wants, the more its going to want it.

Kissing you and retreating is the way of the pvssy cat. You don't want to pet it just yet, or else it will walk away. Right now, the pvssy cat is being playful and so are you. The moment you begin to take it to the next level and pet the pvssy cat, it leaves. Continue to be playful and keep the pvssy wanting to be petted.

 

[Kailex]

I've been "hanging out" with a girl since March who has yet to officially go on a date with me. That's cool by me... she kisses me, she blows me, she fvcks me... she can call it whatever she wants.

To her, I am her "best friend". To me, she is a "plate".

I never go with what they say, brother. I go with how they act.
Let HER place the label on the "relationship". You just keep trying to roll down them pants.

The moment you try to categorize it to her, the moment she's bouncing out of the situation.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

I've been "hanging out" with a girl since March who has yet to officially go on a date with me. That's cool by me... she kisses me, she blows me, she fvcks me... she can call it whatever she wants.

To her, I am her "best friend". To me, she is a "plate".

I never go with what they say, brother. I go with how they act.
Let HER place the label on the "relationship". You just keep trying to roll down them pants.

The moment you try to categorize it to her, the moment she's bouncing out of the situation.

Agreed 100%, actions speak louder than words. I really don't think labels mean shlt anymore. My last 2 plates I told them straight out that I wasn't looking for a GF, next thing I know they are trying to be my GF!? I know it doesn't make any sense.