Confident Persistence - How long, how often?

[meech]

when adopting the behavior of confident persistence, how often should you be hitting up a difficult, flakey girl?

how long should you keep it up before you realize its not gonna happen?

Im all for cutting girls when theyre flakey, its what ive always done... this is new to me...ive seen my friends chase girls for months and end up getting what they want....i dont have the patience for that but im willing to budge a little and persist a little harder for what i want in the future

once a week? once every 2 weeks?

been hitting up a difficult chick I banged a few weeks ago roughly once a week...shes flakey but wev met up a couple times since initial sex and shes really responsive when i actually get her out

with the confident persistence mindset, whats a reasonable time period to keep this up if her behavior doesnt change?

torn because on one hand, sending a text takes 3 seconds but on the other i have a huge ego

appreciate insights

 

[sylvester the cat]

i operate a strict one strike rule with flakes. i do not waste precious time and energy on them.

i try to keep a nice rotation of girls on call that can afford me this approach.

the knowledge that i do not need anyone or anything to make me happy keeps me going through any dry spells.

 

[Anargyros]

ive seen my friends chase girls for months and end up getting what they want....

Interesting.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Interesting.

not interesting at all. just means all other avenues (literally and metaphorically) were exhausted before they 'settled' for second, third or even fourth best.

 

[Anargyros]

not interesting at all. just means all other avenues (literally and metaphorically) were exhausted before they 'settled' for second, third or even fourth best.

Well if she eventually chooses you, you are thereby her first choice. Expecting to be the top SMV man she ever met in her whole life is a bit unrealistic. Brad Pitt is probably her first choice. But she can't have him. Would you then ditch her just because she'd rather be with Brad Pitt if she could?