"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Confident, but lack words

JPlaya

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Today I went up to three girls and really didn't know what to say. It was kind of awkward, but one of the girls was giving me kino and ****.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JPlaya

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I also need gaming help for minorities. I don't dress or act black at all btw.
 

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Wtf red neck acting brother?


What u need to do is chill. Ever done diving with mask and snorkel? If u nervous, u take in water, and don't stay down for long. Fear is paralyzing. But if u relax and enjoy every second, u stay down longer, and see things under water which u normally miss.

Key here is enjoying every second, and taking it slow. Don't just go through. Enjoy. Learn to enjoy simple things first, your every day things, watching tv, showering, taking sh!t, etc. Not just do it, enjoy and savor.
 

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Troll? Anyway, if you don't know what you say you aren't confident. You're trying to think of the right thing! You're trying to impress them! Stop thinking like that
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smooth words don't naturally come out and plus I put out an AFC vibe.
 
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