"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Today I went up to three girls and really didn't know what to say. It was kind of awkward, but one of the girls was giving me kino and ****.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I also need gaming help for minorities. I don't dress or act black at all btw.
 
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Wtf red neck acting brother?


What u need to do is chill. Ever done diving with mask and snorkel? If u nervous, u take in water, and don't stay down for long. Fear is paralyzing. But if u relax and enjoy every second, u stay down longer, and see things under water which u normally miss.

Key here is enjoying every second, and taking it slow. Don't just go through. Enjoy. Learn to enjoy simple things first, your every day things, watching tv, showering, taking sh!t, etc. Not just do it, enjoy and savor.
 
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Troll? Anyway, if you don't know what you say you aren't confident. You're trying to think of the right thing! You're trying to impress them! Stop thinking like that
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Smooth words don't naturally come out and plus I put out an AFC vibe.
 
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