hb
Master Don Juan
The biggest problem i have with confidence is, how am i supposed to think and feel that i am THE MAN if other people dont.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
Bro, what the hell do they know about you? Nothing. The only one that truly knows who you are is YOU. With that said, stop for a moment and asked yourself this question... 'Am I all that, and a bag of chips?' ....I'm sure you already know the answer to that. If you don't, then ya betta ask somebody.
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Amazing. The guy has posted 351 times on this site and still hasn't found his confidence? How many more posts is it going to take for you to understand that approaching a girl will not result in her blowing up in your face and embarrassing you.
It's not about how many times he's posted. A lot of guys here haven't found TRUE confidence but don't want to admit it because their ego's won't let them. Often people confuse 'confidence' in themselves with confidence in MATERIAL that they've learned that they think is responsible for their success. How can ANYBODY learn to be confident if they constantly hear that they must use rules and tricks to get a girl to like them.
hb,
You need to look inside of yourself. Look NO further than that. We are allllll equal in this world. Everybody. Somebody who ridicules you really has no right to do so because they are on the SAME level as you. They are human beings. Nobody has any right to judge you. When you realize that, THEN you can be YOU. You won't need games, or rules, or tactics. You use and harness who you are and blow it up in women's faces. Let your personality shine in every single situation. YOU are good enough to get women, you don't need to learn shyt. Just figure out who you are inside, and be damn proud OF it.
-Blitz
hb,
You need to look inside of yourself. Look NO further than that. We are allllll equal in this world. Everybody. Somebody who ridicules you really has no right to do so because they are on the SAME level as you. They are human beings. Nobody has any right to judge you. When you realize that, THEN you can be YOU. You won't need games, or rules, or tactics. You use and harness who you are and blow it up in women's faces. Let your personality shine in every single situation. YOU are good enough to get women, you don't need to learn shyt. Just figure out who you are inside, and be damn proud OF it.
-Blitz
good post xblitz.
Why do you think other people don't? They base their perceptions off of what you show them. If you went around thinking "i'm the sh!t" most people would think so also. Ironically, for other people to respect you, you have to stop caring if other people respect you. You need to realize that other people are just mirrors that reflect how you feel about yourself. They don't hold meetings and vote on the level of respect to give you. Each new person just listens to what you tell them you are. All of your work needs to be internal.
Sit down and think about why you feel that others are better than you. Are you impressed by money, women, fame, height, pen!s size? Does that mean that they're a better person than you and are more deserving? All that means is that they were luckier than you or worked a little harder. No one is innately superior to you. You are at least as deserving as anyone else on the planet. The only reason you don't get recognition as the man is because you don't claim your birthright.
Why do you think other people don't? They base their perceptions off of what you show them. If you went around thinking "i'm the sh!t" most people would think so also. Ironically, for other people to respect you, you have to stop caring if other people respect you. You need to realize that other people are just mirrors that reflect how you feel about yourself. They don't hold meetings and vote on the level of respect to give you. Each new person just listens to what you tell them you are. All of your work needs to be internal.
Sit down and think about why you feel that others are better than you. Are you impressed by money, women, fame, height, pen!s size? Does that mean that they're a better person than you and are more deserving? All that means is that they were luckier than you or worked a little harder. No one is innately superior to you. You are at least as deserving as anyone else on the planet. The only reason you don't get recognition as the man is because you don't claim your birthright.
"You need to realize that other people are just mirrors " -Quick
Bingo. Good, good point. People reflect back to you who you are not. It's why we get nervous in front of women and become self-conscious.
-Blitz
Bingo. Good, good point. People reflect back to you who you are not. It's why we get nervous in front of women and become self-conscious.
-Blitz
hb
Master Don Juan
thanx guys and i understand what you are saying, but this is how i feel, if i see a reallllllyyyyyy good lookin girl, i think to myself, there are people out there who look better then me, why would she wanna be with me? I really am not satisfied with the way i show myself to other people. Noone disses me, im not that little herb that gets dissed on or w/e its just that I FEEL like im not where i can be and should be and that people dont see me the way i want them to. And to answer that 300 whatever post thing....... DONT BECOME LIKE ME, IVE BEEN HERE FOR ABOUT 3 YEARS ON AND OFF. and the reason im still here is bcuz I DONT TAKE CHANCES. THE REASON EVERYYYYONE ON THIS SITE IS HERE IS BECAUSE THEY DONT TAKE CHANCES.