"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuanJnr

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Hey,

Due to my job's etc I only deal with people older than me, mostly by a substantial amount.

However for some reason when a stranger talks to me a feel all wierd and go red, this is strange as #i have never been like that and I am extremelly confident in comfrotable surroundings.

What can I do to get over this it is really embarrasing. No girl, or boy for that matter is going to like somene hu reacts like this in a normal conversation. I know this but for some reason can't help it.

Thanks in advance.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuanJnr

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yes it seems although I feel really uncomfortable one on one with attractive girls and I can't get a conversation flowing proply.

Do you have any tips to solve this?
 
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DonJuanJnr

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Yes I understand thanks for the tip mate :)

It's just wierd sometimes I find myself turning down obvious chances to have a one on one with a girl because I am wiery if you get me
 
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