Confidence through your looks?

[slipstreamer83]

I was thinking that if you look good (you are well shaved, nice clothes, nice hairstyle, bulked up body or athletic constitution) you could think that you have good looks. If you know you have good looks you get confidence, so there´s nothing to fear when you approach a woman.

This came to my mind as I read Zircon´s post. When he liked his physical appearance, everything changed.

The fact that handsome guys can get chicks can be explained by the fact that they rely on their looks, so they are confident?

 

[chicksrock]

everybody is beautiful/handsome in their own unique way

you have to let that beautifulness in you come out

how do you do that?
you have to be satisfied and pleased with your looks, and you take great pride in your looks, and you always do your best to look your best...

Also how you express yourself and how you carry yourself makes you even more beautiful..
its a whole package...you can make your physical appreance look better this way..
its like waxing/washing your car!

I read this somewhere and practice it myself...and i can tell you it works.
Everday, whenever i get the chance, I look at myself in the mirror..
I admire my looks in the mirror..
and i say to myself. .
"you look fvckin sexy"
I say it like i really mean it

TRY IT ..
ALL DJ'S should do this...

 

[Sisko]

I feel alot better when I like my image in the mirror because I like it, and also when getting more looks by of chicks.

Anyone whow is saying that they dont like it is lying.

 

[FratAndDiddy]

good looks have never been a negative, but your attitude must be positive and confident to back them up. a pleasant smile is also a must. i've never been one to dress to the hilt, but i dont dress sloppy. personal hygene is a must, but i've never worn cologne.

chicks like to look into your eyes. if they are interested they soon forget whether it be a suit or a pair of jeans you are wearing.

if nice clothes and neat appearance works for you to keep up the confidence level, then keep at it. we all operate in a different manner that suits our needs.

 

[quest]

many things can boost ur confidence..

i had low confidence in my looks. and a couple of girls called me ugly. my mates often called me ugly in retaliation to things i'd call them.. it hurt a bit.. i had fairly bad acne and was very self concious of my smile, (just off from my front teeth i have a tooth that has grown in behind another and its like 1 forward, 1 back, 1 forward if that makes sense..

the acne cleared with help of a drug, and thankfully it hasn't come back after getting off it. over that period i was happier, and with certain girls, i couldn't help but smile for whatever reason, and they always said i had a cheeky smile. now its not a smile to die for, but there was no reason to hide it.. also i dress better now (more confidence that i can pull class off) and now when i look at myself in the mirror i don't tell myself "damn i'm good looking" and try to mean it.. i look at myself and say "hey, i scrub up pretty well" and i have confidence that i could pull some A grade chicks from the right situation, i don't think i would at a club, but i think one i worked with/went to school with i could.

right now though, i have a girlfriend whos worthy of an 8, 7.5 lowest..

i'm loving it.
i don't beleive "ugly guys can still pull hot girls with these tips... " kinda stuff, but i do beleive "most guys who think they are ugly arn't so far from being good looking" and i still have alot of work to do on my body (put on weight since having a girlfriend) and i'm considering braces, i think i'd have a nice smile with nice teeth, i like the way my mouth goes