pilot0001
Senior Don Juan
I haven’t posted on this site for a while. I’ve become settled in my style and I know what kind of woman I want.
I’m on my 4rth LTR and I’ve also had 2 ONS, all of which came in the last 2 years. That does not count maybe a dozen women I went on a date or 2 with followed by rejection or nexting. For a while people were asking me who girl of the month was and I decided to tone it down a bit. Being a tail chaser I never got the women I REALLY wanted so I began looking for a way to have them come to me. My success went way up in quality with women and I now have a girlfriend who is smart, kinky, and a lot of fun. She's head over heals for me. I had a bit of a crush on her when I met her but I didn’t let that f*ck me over this time.
What I had to learn was patience. I needed to stop my attempts to force my hand. This is not about instant gratification. Being patient will set you apart from everyone else. It shows confidence in your self. If you have some things going for you in your life, let it shine like a lighthouse out at sea and the women will come to you. Don’t force your hand and the women will seek you out in curiosity. It really is not as hard as everyone seems to make it. Women will seek you out. Learn to identify that and simply react to it. It is so easy. Wait for the right moments to make your moves and bam… you got her. Knowing when to make those moves will come from experience.
Finally, become concrete on your dating style. Know what it is you’re looking for. You need to have confidence in your abilities with women even though you are not Don Juan De’ Marco himself.
I’m on my 4rth LTR and I’ve also had 2 ONS, all of which came in the last 2 years. That does not count maybe a dozen women I went on a date or 2 with followed by rejection or nexting. For a while people were asking me who girl of the month was and I decided to tone it down a bit. Being a tail chaser I never got the women I REALLY wanted so I began looking for a way to have them come to me. My success went way up in quality with women and I now have a girlfriend who is smart, kinky, and a lot of fun. She's head over heals for me. I had a bit of a crush on her when I met her but I didn’t let that f*ck me over this time.
What I had to learn was patience. I needed to stop my attempts to force my hand. This is not about instant gratification. Being patient will set you apart from everyone else. It shows confidence in your self. If you have some things going for you in your life, let it shine like a lighthouse out at sea and the women will come to you. Don’t force your hand and the women will seek you out in curiosity. It really is not as hard as everyone seems to make it. Women will seek you out. Learn to identify that and simply react to it. It is so easy. Wait for the right moments to make your moves and bam… you got her. Knowing when to make those moves will come from experience.
Finally, become concrete on your dating style. Know what it is you’re looking for. You need to have confidence in your abilities with women even though you are not Don Juan De’ Marco himself.