"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Confidence Meter

Ziro

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This may be a crappy tip, but it works for me and I thought that maybe it could help some other people out too:

When I feel sort of down for whatever reason and my confidence needs a boost, I picture a thermometer or speedometer in my mind. I try to pretend that the measuring device is in fact a confidence meter, a sophisticated mechanism used for the sole purpose of measuring confidence. I estimate where my current confidence level would be at and then concentrate really hard on bringing it up as high as I can. You really have to picture this and concentrate on what you're doing (this sort of tricks your brain into making you more confident). Its effects can wear off over time, but it's great for a quick confidence boost. Give it a try.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MidwestFreek

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it probably might do a little bit...its that whole mind over matter thing...
 
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