Confidence is shot

[SamMalone]

Ok guys, I need some help. I am seeing two girls right now. One of them I've been seeing for a few months and the other for about one month. The one I've been seeing for a few months loves me in bed. Says I'm real good at foreplay and she always gets off. Good sex life. The other girl is different. She always oragasms, or at least "gets off" when I am with her ( I know she is not faking, because she is BRUTALLY honest with everything). Anyways, she says I warm her up better than anyone, but when it comes to the actual intercourse, I'm the worst she's ever had! I honestly don't know what I am doing wrong and she won't tell me because "I Should Know". I don't know if she is messing with me or telling the truth (I'd guess the latter). Any ideas on what to do?

I will admit I am relatively inexperienced so maybe I don't know what I am doing.

 

[LoneSilver]

Did the second girl tell you that you are the worst shes ever had in that matter? If so, I'd tell the b*tch to go f*ck a pole and concentrate on the first girl who appreciates your manhood and skills bro..

LoneSilver

Ok guys, I need some help. I am seeing two girls right now. One of them I've been seeing for a few months and the other for about one month. The one I've been seeing for a few months loves me in bed. Says I'm real good at foreplay and she always gets off. Good sex life. The other girl is different. She always oragasms, or at least "gets off" when I am with her ( I know she is not faking, because she is BRUTALLY honest with everything). Anyways, she says I warm her up better than anyone, but when it comes to the actual intercourse, I'm the worst she's ever had! I honestly don't know what I am doing wrong and she won't tell me because "I Should Know". I don't know if she is messing with me or telling the truth (I'd guess the latter). Any ideas on what to do?

I will admit I am relatively inexperienced so maybe I don't know what I am doing.

 

[j0n024]

.....that's stupid and shows that your insecure about your manhood lone.

I think you should ask her what you are doing that makes you the "Worst," and if she says "You should know again," Just say...

"IF I KNEW I wouldnt be asking you in the first place so if you want me to get better why dont you just tell me why you think I am the worst or tell me what I am doing that you dont like."

A girl that doesnt tell you what she doesnt like and says that you should already know what your doing is a moron because if you actually did know then you wouldnt be doing it that way anyways would you? Just sit her down and just plain ask her IF she gives you the run around just for an answer then maybe you should freeze her out and not talk to her for a while... but you shouldnt worry inexperience goes away after a while and hell every time is a new experience so keep your head up bro and good luck.

 

[true romance]

next time she just walk in your door. Grab her and slam her against the wall..
Make out like no tomorrow...

Be caveman, it's like you never see food before...
surprise and spice...

 

[SamMalone]

Her oral techniques aren't that great anyways, so I think I'm going to try to talk to her again.

The first girl I've been saying says she is the best she has ever had. She is a white girl and the other is mexican, so maybe that has something to do with it.

Plus, the second girl (that says I'm the worst) did not even make me *** the first 10 times we did it, and the two times I did after that they weren't that good. Maybe we just aren't clicking.

 

[SamMalone]

Texted her we had to talk today. She texted back if I would tell her something she didn't want to her. I didn't respond and she kept texting me until I did (I let her mind run wild a little, waiting longer must have made her feel so nervous). Anyways, she called me when she got off and said she was sorry and that she just had to "get used to me". I gave her a list of demands on things she had to change or we were done tonight, and told her one more screwup and I'm done with her. She agreed and we are going to try to get the sex clicking I hope. I still won't be over her comment we get good in bed though.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I used to date a crazy bpd girl who, every time we'd fight, would flip out on me and say she never came from sex and that she was always faking it. I just told her "ok," and then the next few times we had sex, I was done in less than a minute instead of the usual 15-20. I figured what she said relieved me of any duty to try. Within a day or two, she was adamant that she didn't mean what she said and taking it all back.

 

[LoneSilver]

Double post

 

[LoneSilver]

It's the tone in how the girl expresses it j0n024. If shes nasty about the situation she can go shovel the horse **** out of the barn and to hell with her but if she seems to be genuine about resolving the issue sure I'll take notes and listen while holding her hand... what mature man wouldn't.

Every woman is different I have screwed women who wanted me to dig my teeth in the tip of her breast in order for her to get off I thought WTF even one time drawing blood while she's hollerin' and cummin'.

There are some crazy women amongst us you just never know whats on the other side of those sweet lookn' eyes.

LoneSilver

.....that's stupid and shows that your insecure about your manhood lone.

 

[LoneSilver]

My step niece is hispanic 26 years old and prettiest girl around love her to death... bet you can't figure out her fetish in order for her to get off? She has a poot fetish the guy has to poot in order for her to get comfortable and enjoy the sex and thats not all she gets off better if the poot is smellin' bad...I am not kidding here and what guy would know this in his skills of doing sex with women if you don't poot and smell the room up she don't c*m :crackup:

I really wonder whats behind a fetish like that especially coming from a girl that's sexy as hell...

Glad your getin' it resolved SamMalone..hang in there...worst has happen women have been known to cut mens penis's off without warning.

LoneSilver

Her oral techniques aren't that great anyways, so I think I'm going to try to talk to her again.

The first girl I've been saying says she is the best she has ever had. She is a white girl and the other is mexican, so maybe that has something to do with it.

Plus, the second girl (that says I'm the worst) did not even make me *** the first 10 times we did it, and the two times I did after that they weren't that good. Maybe we just aren't clicking.

 

[Black suit]

Hey, she clearly isn't good enough for you. Not even nearly. Get rid of her, I say. Also, looks like you aren't that into the first girl either. That's no problem. Keep ****ing her. But do go and get other fresh girls.