"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Confidence is contageous

frivolousz21

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A little tip for the guys who are down out there right now...cofidence doesnt just happen in one moment this isnt a movie. But once you get just a little bit of the "juice" you can fill up ur 50 gallon barrell fast.

Start with something you know you can handle..then work from there..but dont let the momentum stop. Take your Reset button out..and keep the power on at all times.

think of it as a video game..your on level 1...you have unlimited lives..but you cant turn it off until youve reached the peak.

talk to one girl..once you succedd..dont stop dont hedge..DONT DO A DAMN THING BEFORE DOUBT CREEPS IN. go talk to another women..go try a move in one of the sports you play your afraid to.
do whatever you have to do to keep the ball rollin...until youve mastered the GAME!

that was broken up..but you get my point.

good luck guys
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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