"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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confidence inbalance happen to even the best DJS?

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sportf190

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hey guys just antoher quick question i find myself not being so confident any more and i usually go through this cycle where i will go up to any one and then sometimes not at all for girls... im just wondering if this happens to everyone out there or is it just me... Usually for me to get back to my gmae i wait for a r hot girl 8 or higher to look at me or something but now im back in my slump and it sucks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Doggystyle

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I don't know about the best DJ's but I see my self as pretty confident most of the time.

When I haven't been looking after myself I can feel my confidence drop, i.e. lack of sleep, too much drinking, not eating right, too much/little exercise
 

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For the BEST men (this is a group so small that i can't think of anyone in the seduction community who belongs in it, as those who attain such heights usually leave this old "shell" behind), the concept of confidence doesn't exist. They just ARE. There is no fear, no doubt. There is air. There is sun. There is love. This takes time, but if you're persistent enough, one day you'll arrive. We ALL started at the bottom, and have ALL stumbled MANY times. But all it takes is persistence and time, then all is given to he who has justly earned it.
 
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thanks alot i just go thorugh dif. stages and just seein if other ppl go through that also
 

Dayum itz jee

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Well... The problem with me.. I so fvcking confidence around hot girls.. but around ugly chicks im like a little shy school girl.. dont know why.. but i cant seem to able to talk and look them in their face...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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