"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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- Thread starter Liamz
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
jiza101
Master Don Juan
Man you have more important things to understand in life. First of all dont rely on building your muscles to become confident, your only 13.... Get the inside right, get some self confidence by using some NLNP (forogt its exact term) But basically what you do is read out POSITIVE things about your self each morning and night, and after a few months it will improve your confidence ALOT. Another trick is to think of the person you WISH to be, how he looks how he walks EVERYTHING, then step into his body in your mind.:cheer: REMEMBER, when doing these mind things ACTUALLY BELIEVE IT AND SAY THEM WITH CONFIDENCE, dont just mutter "i am great with women, im an independent man" BLOODY SAY IT LIKE YOU MEAN IT. DONT LIE TO YOURSELF. Now go get it son !