"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Confidence doesn't work. Only attractiveness does.

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skinnyguy

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Had a bunch of trolls telling me that I was bitter cause I wasn't confident.

Ha!

The ONLY way you can be truly confident is if you're an Attractive, Alpha Male who gets laid on a regular basis.

That pretty much wipes out anyone in this forum. So stop hating on people by saying that they're not "confident". You're giving women way too much credit by saying that they will go for an unattractive male if he's confident enough.

Some fags on here just succumb to women so easily.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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floydb25

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How come every male with a red reputation bar has the exact same personality, mindset, and bitter-failed experiences - which result in continuous whining about women; calling them bishes and assh0le lovers, and shallow wh0res who only care about "teh lookz"... Then they start attacking all board members who then call them out for being annoying, whiney, retarded losers... Then they start making threads insulting everyone's ideas, and projecting their failues and **** theories onto others, and claim everyone is ugly, stupid, lying, and can't ever get laid (like themselves) - because they suck at life, and are hated by everyone, everywhere? Clearly the problem isn't them. Ha Ha Ha. :kick:

At least they all end up getting banned.
 

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its better to have confidence and not be attractive than dont have both of those traits. admittedly, im part of the former. i might not get the amount of girls dudes with both traits have (or the latter) but its better than to feel great than feel ****ty like you do. dont tell me you dont feel ****ty, cause if you didnt, you wouldnt bother to make a thread about it anyway.

edit: but your main point is correct, tho. its true. but dont let that hold you back because theres always some girls that dont mind as long as you dont look like total horse ****
 

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floydb25 said:
How come every male with a red reputation bar has the exact same personality, mindset, and bitter-failed experiences - which result in continuous whining about women; calling them bishes and assh0le lovers, and shallow wh0res who only care about "teh lookz"... Then they start attacking all board members who then call them out for being annoying, whiney, retarded losers... Then they start making threads insulting everyone's ideas, and projecting their failues and **** theories onto others, and claim everyone is ugly, stupid, lying, and can't ever get laid (like themselves) - because they suck at life, and are hated by everyone, everywhere? Clearly the problem isn't them. Ha Ha Ha. :kick:

At least they all end up getting banned.
Yeah, I agree. Like I always say - "Before criticizing the world around you take a good look in the mirror." The problem more than likely lyes there - not externally. ..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Confidence is a portion of the pie.

If you want to make your world and dating life a better place, start with the man/ boy in the mirror and make a change. Complaining won't do sh*t, except dig yourself a deeper hole.

This thread is not gonna be a trolling pity whiny party. So I'm closing it.

Case closed. Clear the courtroom.
 
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