Almost every female wants a guy with confidence. Which comes first Confidence or Success? Confidence is knowing what to do in a situation. Studying and picking up certaing ideas gave me confidence so that when a girl asked me what i did for a living or what kind of a car I drive, I knew how to respond. The more you know what girls are doing, the easier it makes it to respond and improvise. When you know whats going on, you're not clueless. Cuz clueless people dont have confidence, they have big egos.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Confidence Doesn't Just Come From Success
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KarmaSutra
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A pretty simplistic equation:
Courage leads to Confidence which then leads to Success. Every single time.
I've been reading and implementing quite a bit of Jungian psychology / Morita therapy and, to some extent, the Dr. Paul MIND OS material. Which in combination with daily yoga and gym work has really helped to reshape my outlook on life and internal processes.
Courage leads to Confidence which then leads to Success. Every single time.
I've been reading and implementing quite a bit of Jungian psychology / Morita therapy and, to some extent, the Dr. Paul MIND OS material. Which in combination with daily yoga and gym work has really helped to reshape my outlook on life and internal processes.
chronic99uk
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You can trick yourself into confidence, or well just unlock the confidence you already have, its just about find the right key to the door.
Il explain from a real life situation i had not only a few days ago.
Im a confident bloke in real life, fine at doing presentations to lots of people, but going into a crowd of girls would just make me crawl inside myself.
I went out with some people who are afc's and im not, but because i had to keep up appreances, i just headed into a bunch of girls and just introduced myself, and had a nice chat, was doing this alnight, getting the afcs into the convos, to making me look even better. Was amazing night. I now am trying to just use this as a fuel, because if i can do it then, why cant i do it anytime.
If i have opened the floodgates and now dont have a physcological lock on my mental door, then wooo, sorted.
Find your confidence key!
Il explain from a real life situation i had not only a few days ago.
Im a confident bloke in real life, fine at doing presentations to lots of people, but going into a crowd of girls would just make me crawl inside myself.
I went out with some people who are afc's and im not, but because i had to keep up appreances, i just headed into a bunch of girls and just introduced myself, and had a nice chat, was doing this alnight, getting the afcs into the convos, to making me look even better. Was amazing night. I now am trying to just use this as a fuel, because if i can do it then, why cant i do it anytime.
If i have opened the floodgates and now dont have a physcological lock on my mental door, then wooo, sorted.
Find your confidence key!
CrunchyNut
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I find the best way is to do something which you are good at. I am a fairly good tennis player. I will play some tennis to get my confidence up. Do whatever makes you feel good about yourself. This will improve all of your social interactions, simply because you are happier with who you are, rather than asking "what is everyone thinking of me?"