Confidence,charisma,average looks and....

[demonic]

Ok so after YEARS i'm going to give all my friend on here what i've come to realize as THE way to get girls.

before i start this is girls as in ons's and fbuddy....only cause i have alot of trust issue's with women and so i'm kinda screwed where trust is concerned...anyway

ALL you need IF your average looking is

1.Confidence - Ok so if you have'nt got this work on it...use alcohol or ANYTHING you can think of to make yourself as confident as you can!.

2.Charisma - BE the life and soul of everyone around you, don't be a bore and a ghost..make yourself heard and have fun with it.

3.looks - ok alot has been said about this, i'd rate my looks about 6 maybe a 7 at times...yet i have pulled sooo many hot girls it's just soo easy now.

4.DO NOT WACK TO PORN, IT WILL SAP YOUR ENERGY,CONFIDENCE AND WILL TO GET GIRLS...END OF!

Now since i realized the above i've got something called "the streak" where i've literally got a ons everytime i try....it's soo damm easy and funny!.

this is'nt a post trying to brag, although i'm brillaint...

just want everyone to realize that your goals in getting girls are attainable and ANYONE can be successful with girls IF THEY MAKE THE EFFORT!.

Demonic

 

[Mavrick]

"Success cannot be getting a girl because that means failure is being alone." -Pook


ONS might be easy for you, but be very careful. Don't depend on it for your happiness.

 

[Enryu]

wrong forum i guess this is discussion not DJ tips
Anyways whats wrong with masterbaiting?>>

 

[mr.uk]

1.Confidence - Ok so if you have'nt got this work on it...use alcohol or ANYTHING you can think of to make yourself as confident as you can!.

2.Charisma - BE the life and soul of everyone around you, don't be a bore and a ghost..make yourself heard and have fun with it.

i cant agree that you should use alcohol for confidence...a drunk DJ is a sloppy DJ.

Being the life and soul is very difficult if you are starting out abit of a geek.
if you try to do this straight away your body language will not be congruent with your actions an people will pick up on it...i would say start out talking to more people and focusing on listening to what they say..like ACTUALLY DEEPLY LISTEN. they will tell you what to say if you listen properly. from there you can build rapport with people and get more friends as a result. this will build your confidence and youll be the life and soul without any effort at all.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Yes as mr.uk said for nr.1 .

Confidence

You dont need alcohol . Just fvcking improve your game , approach and once you start getting girls youll feel alot more confident .

Another confident raiser is to look best of yourself . Shower , shave , wear your best clothes , have a crazy hairstyle and you will be much more confident.

When i said improve your game , some might not pay attention to it . "he's saying what everybody's saying , cheap advice ".

This is the best advice IMO . Improve your game . Whats easier than grabbing your balls and approaching girls on street/club/bar ??

After doing about 20-50 approaches youll see patterns . Youll see the golden way how to get girls . And once you start getting that success youll feel much more confident .

Charisma

Easy to achieve. I think everybody is funny . But they just dont express themselves .Fvcking be loud . Never hold it inside . Always tell how you feel what you think . Make people respect you :box:.

Looks

Look is just a small bonus when it comes to getting girl . Man they just digg for value . Once you have value its easyyyyyy. But if you wanna look good , for confidence , just fvcking dress good , go to stylist for a cool hairstyle , shave , shower and thats it .

Fvck its all about mindset .

 

[demonic]

Some great replies,

Ok alcohol for me is great, i mean i'm already really confident and alcohol helps me relax abit more.but NOT to the point i'm some drunken loser

Also i do understand where i mentioned get confidence anyway and be charismatic....that AT FIRST you DO NEED TO FAKE IT, whether you come across as non coogruent or not...after you fake it in time you become it.

it's like the saying "what you practice you become"...

Anyhow thanks for keeping the disscusion going without any childish replies

Also on a side note i DO work out...but i'm skinny and around 5ft 4in in height...does'nt seem to stop me in anyway.

Demonic

 

[Alphamale1821]

golden post i noticed that when i have whacked in the past and totally took out my life to pull biitchies. I would still accomplish shiit but my "Drive" to get women was lower as in i would not approach. PORN IS NOT WORTH IT IF U WANT TO PULL WOMEN . Think of it this way a Digitial biitch or a real chick.

I leave you with this

He who hesitates masturbates, thus if you do not hesitate ye shall not masturbate.

 

[DonJuan11]

3.looks - ok alot has been said about this, i'd rate my looks about 6 maybe a 7 at times...yet i have pulled sooo many hot girls it's just soo easy now.

As long as you all your hair + height and look respectable, looks don't mean that much IMHO.

4.DO NOT WACK TO PORN, IT WILL SAP YOUR ENERGY,CONFIDENCE AND WILL TO GET GIRLS...END OF! -

OK I don't know about this. I watch alot alot of porn and sometimes can't get turned on and girls get turned on that I can't get turned on. If you don't watch porn, you will think girls are the most magnificent thing is the world. Once you watch it, you will think "that's disgusting, I don't want to do that" and then you won't think the girl is the greatest peron in the world

IMHO

 

[DonJuan11]

golden post i noticed that when i have whacked in the past and totally took out my life to pull biitchies. I would still accomplish shiit but my "Drive" to get women was lower as in i would not approach. PORN IS NOT WORTH IT IF U WANT TO PULL WOMEN . Think of it this way a Digitial biitch or a real chick.

OK that's fair but if you don't watch porn, won't you get extremely nervous with any chick? Talking to them, kissing them, sleeping with them? You'll be so nervous because you will think its the most precious and unattainable thing in the world.

 

[Bonafide]

After I watched porn a few times...touching and actually ****ing females is like second nature.

 

[BeyondCharm]

I agree with all the comments made about porn. Take 5 days from watching porn and instead you'll be watching your game skyrocket. Your confidence will rise and your desire/libido will also. Fight the urge, turn off your computer, rip out the internet, burn the dvds, toss the magazines...

 

[ItsOnNow]

How do you get confidence? What is it? Is it that some just have more than others? Also,porn has always been a factor. I would be shocked if alot of the way I feel comes from jacking it too much. I try to go for days without doing it,I can't. It's like I'm locked onto it. I mean,it feels sad that I can jack it,but can't approach/talk. Jacking it is no comparison to the real thing. It just seems unatainable to me.

 

[BeyondCharm]

How do you get confidence? What is it? Is it that some just have more than others? Also,porn has always been a factor. I would be shocked if alot of the way I feel comes from jacking it too much. I try to go for days without doing it,I can't. It's like I'm locked onto it. I mean,it feels sad that I can jack it,but can't approach/talk. Jacking it is no comparison to the real thing. It just seems unatainable to me.

Some people stumble upon confidence with a realization about themselves. It's Internal. Only people who are willing to look DEEP into themselves will see the simplicity of being confident.

CONFIDENCE IS AN INTERNAL PROCESS OF BEING HAPPY WITH YOURSELF AND WHO YOU ARE.

Smiling, Feeling good about your life, being positive and putting positive energy out there...