"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Confessions of a new member

Alien Nation

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Hi. I'm new to the website and I gotta admit that this has to be the greatest thing since the invention of bread..seriously.

I've spent the last couple of days reading the articles and it has slowly changed my life--especialy the article..'todays the day."

Being a procrastinator when it comes to things I am unfamiliar with, I would find myself just putting things off, especially my sex life, but todays the day I've decided to change that.

todays the day I went out to the mall to enhance my self-image.
todays the day I boosted my confidence.
todays the day I smiled and made EC.
Tomorrow I will make an effort to approach women.


The site is great. Its a pleasure to be here. :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Big Eee Zee

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yup, I felt that way when I first found this site. The whole notion of living life simply to better oneself was like a slap in the face for me: I had just never thought like that before.
 

Reach

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It's always good to learn and realise that there's so much out there to learn still. It helps when you know the paths other people have taken because you can easily get lost. What I liked about finding this community was the fact I could safely follow other peoples paths, but it also gave me a safety harness for when I just wanted to wonder into the world by myself.

I think lots of people gain from this community.
 

SamePendo

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It's a pleasure to have you here man.
 
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