You should have engaged your friend into your talk and "games," so he can learn how to "game" a HB instead of leaving him looking like a chump. Then when the conversation is most excited, leave, let your friend take over. If he messes it up and the HB likes you, he won't hate you since you helped to hook him up and you let him had his chance. This way you get 1 or 2 (HB hooks up w/your friend you get your friend or HB hooks up w/ you you still have your friend and HB). The way you handled it, you either get the HB and loose your friend or no HB at all and loose your friend, which might have already happened.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Confession: I am so cruel! ...thanks sosauve..
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