"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Confessing feelings

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So a few years back I confessed to a girl with absolute certainty that she felt the same way towards me. I was shocked when she turned me down. This event led me to find the red pill and Don Juan. I just assumed that my actions showed that I was too desperate. But anyways, I was watching the latest episode of The Flash today and the main character Barry Alan aka Flash experienced a similar situation. The girl confessed her love for Alan during a life or death situation. Then Alan somehow traveled back in time exactly one day ago by running really fast. He was reliving the same day and because he knew that the girl of his dreams had the same feelings for him, he went to confess to her right away. And he got turned down!

Yes this is only a show; it's all staged, but it got me thinking that what if this kind of situation does happen in real life. Could a girl have feelings for you and still turn you down because of the situation or setting? The show mentioned something about the unconscious and conscious. Could there be a psychological explanation too?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Suspens

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Yes she might even love you, but her current BF is a billionarie sugar daddy and she is being practical and acting on her best interests by telling you to fvck off.

Gold-Digger b1tches in their 30s are like that.
 

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You don't tell a girl your feelings. You show her.
 

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All women care about when selecting men is what those men can do for her. So YES.. a woman can find you attractive or like your personality and still reject you because you don't offer "that value" she needs at the moment which can consist of:

-Someone who will impress her friends
-Someone who will impress her family
-Someone her family will hate (yes.. sometimes women date men out of spite)
-Someone who can provide financial resources
-Someone who can provide emotional security
-Someone who can provide healthy and attractive kids
-Someone who will be a good reliable father

So as you can see.. men are simply tools/utilities to help further a woman's goals/lifestyle. Women select the right tool for the right goal. If she needs a hammer at the moment.. then she will love and commit to that hammer.. that is.. until she no longer needs a hammer. Once her goals require a screw driver instead.. she will drop the hammer and pick up the screw driver.

This is how women operate (and always have). Which is why beta blue pill faggots who buy into love and commitment are morons. But they make the best tools for getting duped and used by women (a man's only purpose). Only men who f*ck and chuck are enlightened enough to understand the REAL dynamic between the two sexes.
 

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Poon King said:
All women care about when selecting men is what those men can do for her. So YES.. a woman can find you attractive or like your personality and still reject you because you don't offer "that value" she needs at the moment which can consist of:

-Someone who will impress her friends
-Someone who will impress her family
-Someone her family will hate (yes.. sometimes women date men out of spite)
-Someone who can provide financial resources
-Someone who can provide emotional security
-Someone who can provide healthy and attractive kids
-Someone who will be a good reliable father

So as you can see.. men are simply tools/utilities to help further a woman's goals/lifestyle. Women select the right tool for the right goal. If she needs a hammer at the moment.. then she will love and commit to that hammer.. that is.. until she no longer needs a hammer. Once her goals require a screw driver instead.. she will drop the hammer and pick up the screw driver.

This is how women operate (and always have). Which is why beta blue pill faggots who buy into love and commitment are morons. But they make the best tools for getting duped and used by women (a man's only purpose). Only men who f*ck and chuck are enlightened enough to understand the REAL dynamic between the two sexes.
Spot on brother! Let me reinforce that it is all about THE MOMENT. Women are guided by their emotions... however they are feeling at the MOMENT is what they are going to respond to. Women are genetically and psychologically incapable of unconditional "romantic" love. Men are tools to meet their needs.... this is why I fvcking HATE nice guy betas.... I really do hate them. I don't blame women, they are only behaving according to their nature... but this Blue Pill @ss whipes just get my blood boiling.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Actually, I think this is a plausible idea because similar to how a girl can originally like you and then friendzone you, I believe that a girl can go from not thinking anything of you, to liking you. It is dependent on your actions and how she perceives you to be from them.
 
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