Condoms

[Reykhel]

Does anybody else have a problem with condoms?

I know, I know.....I should use them all of the time and I want to...

Everyone in the seduction community says use condoms and rightly so....diseases and
unwanted nasty fetuses...turning into nasty...humans...responsibility...money

But I can't seem to use them...

Last night I had a delightful one night stand and.....I went bareback again. Now, I don't set out
with this intention.......I carry two in my wallet, I have a box in my bathroom...

The chick last night actually said to me in the bar "do you have condoms?" (on a side note: easies lay ever) I said "yes sure I do" and already a little voice in my head was saying "...but we're not going to be using them"

Now, a friend kind of jokingly critisised me today when I mentioned this and rightly so...I agree....at least the logical part of my brain. And it made me think....when did I last use one? and I couldn't honestly say.......

what's the problem?

I'm always hard, I have zero problem with an erection. I can come and I'm ready to go again pretty soon enough after....

However, put a condom near me......and my c0ck is like a dog who was beaten as a pup and someone has just pulled out a cane with a menacing look on their face. It cowers in the fvcking corner....

this is 100% the only moment where I may have a flacid friend. So in the moment I just go with the flow and don't use one. Does she protest? sometimes token resistence but I've already gone down on her and shoved my friend in her mouth to get rid of pre-***.....she's too wet to protest really.

Ok I will say that it feels much better without a condom. Of course I never finish inside her....well....

anyone else get this?

is it all in the head? the main one...

 

[NSX-R]

Nobody likes wearing a condom . I never liked it but since I don't want to be a 20 year old father I'm wearing it all the time.
It's a small price that you have to pay.

 

[Reykhel]

Nobody likes wearing a condom . I never liked it but since I don't want to be a 20 year old father I'm wearing it all the time.
It's a small price that you have to pay.

I didn't ask about liking per say, more if you have a problem with them....read it again

and if you don't want to be a 20 year old father you can use the withdraw method no? come in
in mouth come on her belly finish in her *******? if she does get pregant you can kill
the fetes no? vodka and a coathanger? push her down the stairs?

might be other alternatives

 

[dillj]

if it's REALLY about kids, wise up and get a vasectomy. You'll probably find out that you can't get hard WITHOUT a condom, when what you REALLY think of is all the "no way she can be MY kid's mom" sort of women that settle for guys like you

 

[NSX-R]

I didn't ask about liking per say, more if you have a problem with them....read it again

and if you don't want to be a 20 year old father you can use the withdraw method no? come in
in mouth come on her belly finish in her *******? if she does get pregant you can kill
the fetes no? vodka and a coathanger? push her down the stairs?

might be other alternatives

When you have to wear something that you don't like ,it's a problem.

Have you considered the size of the condom? Might be too small and it's blocking the blood through your D. When I first tried a condom , it was too small ( i had no idea how to usse one) and it was a terrible feeling, until some professionals came to my school and explained everything about condoms . They even gave me a specific paper to measure how big my d is to help me buy a condom in the right size.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Everything is good and dandy until you get a STD.

I've smashed a lot of chicks raw in my day and was very lucky not to get anything. Use a condom and protect yourself. If you get a chick pregnant or an STD then your screwed. 20 minutes of entertainment isn't worth it unless your screwing a millionaire.

 

[Huffman]

To be fair I've never had sex without one before. But I hate that moment when you're fidgeting around with it. Some women are so tight that I can't get it in if it's not 100% diamond hard. Fumbling around doesn't help.

 

[thatfeel]

To be fair I've never had sex without one before. But I hate that moment when you're fidgeting around with it. Some women are so tight that I can't get it in if it's not 100% diamond hard. Fumbling around doesn't help.

The worst thing about condoms to me is the god awful smell. I've tried quite a few of the different "models" of the two major brands, trojan and durex, and they always have this really weird, gasoline-like, raunchy weird kind of smell. And no it's not the girl. I also hate the moment when you're fidgeting around with it, totally kills the mood in my head. To top your 100% diamond hardness I also agree that it's a bit annoying when they're not an absolute floodgate, in addition to being of average size, as soon as I start going limp because the condom trolled me it's just over from there.

 

[logicallefty]

Yes, I have lots of trouble with condoms, and relate to your post OP. I go from the North pole to the South pole in seconds with one on. As of late I typically only rail one woman at a time, STR or LTR or FWB. This last STR I was in, I never blew my load inside her but pre-cvm is always a risk. I need to go get STD tested soon. In many LTRs I have been in, the woman was unable to get preggo and I am not against having one go get tested. When one tells me verbally they can't get preggo, I always find some way to get that in a text or FB message for my records.. I must admit I live on edge with this because of the condom issue, but have been fortunate. I have had ONSs with no condom in the past like and idiot... I try to avoid that now with at least a STR or FWB who I already know can't get preggo from talking before.... I have tried about every brand of confom, texture, etc and it's not just a matter of them not feeling as good, it's a matter that my d|ck goes limp most of the time with one on. I wish I had a solid solution, but I at least wanted to tell you that I relate.

 

[thatfeel]

I'm conflicted on what to believe as far as pre-cvm is concerned. Pre-cvm is not supposed to contain sperm...it's happens to contain sperm if you've ejaculated around the same vicinity of time(e.g. at some point earlier in the day)as when you go to get pre-cvm. Pre-cvm doesn't even originate from the same organ as sperm..

 

[logicallefty]

I'm conflicted on what to believe as far as pre-cvm is concerned. Pre-cvm is not supposed to contain sperm...it's happens to contain sperm if you've ejaculated around the same vicinity of time(e.g. at some point earlier in the day)as when you go to get pre-cvm. Pre-cvm doesn't even originate from the same organ as sperm..

Interesting. I did not know any of this.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Joe Rogan has a comedy bit about the withdrawal method. That's how he had his daughter.

 

[Reykhel]

When you have to wear something that you don't like ,it's a problem.

Have you considered the size of the condom? Might be too small and it's blocking the blood through your D. When I first tried a condom , it was too small ( i had no idea how to usse one) and it was a terrible feeling, until some professionals came to my school and explained everything about condoms . They even gave me a specific paper to measure how big my d is to help me buy a condom in the right size.

Good info. I didn't know you could get measured.

It could be what it is. I almost feel embarrassed going into a chemist and saying, do you have
bigger ones. Silly rule. I was thinking about it and maybe I need lube too. I've seen the durex bottles of lube and I should try that...

I think also after thinking about it.....I've never really given my self the chance to get used to them. I just don't use them anymore...

when I was 20 I was a couple of years into a 5 year relationship and we used condoms for the first....few months and then she went on the Jack and Jill. Think I just got used to that. Same in other LTR's.

Fair play, you seem to have your head screwed on at a young age.

 

[Reykhel]

Yes, I have lots of trouble with condoms, and relate to your post OP. I go from the North pole to the South pole in seconds with one on. As of late I typically only rail one woman at a time, STR or LTR or FWB. This last STR I was in, I never blew my load inside her but pre-cvm is always a risk. I need to go get STD tested soon. In many LTRs I have been in, the woman was unable to get preggo and I am not against having one go get tested. When one tells me verbally they can't get preggo, I always find some way to get that in a text or FB message for my records.. I must admit I live on edge with this because of the condom issue, but have been fortunate. I have had ONSs with no condom in the past like and idiot... I try to avoid that now with at least a STR or FWB who I already know can't get preggo from talking before.... I have tried about every brand of confom, texture, etc and it's not just a matter of them not feeling as good, it's a matter that my d|ck goes limp most of the time with one on. I wish I had a solid solution, but I at least wanted to tell you that I relate.

Thanks brother. Appreciate it.

Food for thought about the approach you take, one woman be it a STR or LTR or FWB. Could be a better route for me.

Good tip on keeping messages for your own records too. I like it. Savvy.

 

[Reykhel]

if it's REALLY about kids, wise up and get a vasectomy. You'll probably find out that you can't get hard WITHOUT a condom, when what you REALLY think of is all the "no way she can be MY kid's mom" sort of women that settle for guys like you

What???????!!!!!!!

I think inside that little riddle of yours is some nice underhanded
feminist shaming. That settle for guys like you??!!!! LOL

Nice try, biatch.

You better check yourself before you wreck yourself, G.

 

[Bingo-Player]

banged 22 women ,hardly ever worn condoms

no kids , caught one or two std's a couple years ago from some dodgy one night stands but nothing that was the end of the world

to be honest if your going to wear a condom there isn't much point in having sex it ruins the whole experience

a man and a woman are not supposed to have a piece of rubber interrupting when they are indulging in the sacred act of mating

man up and put it in, you'll be dead in 50 years anyway who cares

 

[EyeBRollin]

I always use condoms. End of discussion.

It's your body, bro.

 

[JohnChops]

The "pre cvm" is produced and secreted by the prostate. It's alkaline and it is the last piece of te seminal fluid puzzle. It's purpose is to act as a base, neutralizing the acidic environment of the woman's vagina so sperm won't die trying to fertilize the egg.

 

[Reykhel]

banged 22 women ,hardly ever worn condoms

no kids , caught one or two std's a couple years ago from some dodgy one night stands but nothing that was the end of the world

to be honest if your going to wear a condom there isn't much point in having sex it ruins the whole experience

a man and a woman are not supposed to have a piece of rubber interrupting when they are indulging in the sacred act of mating

man up and put it in, you'll be dead in 50 years anyway who cares

Haha! Man up and put it in! Well what you described is kind of my attitude.....but I'm maybe having a small conflict. That I should use them. But I know that when I do....it kills my boner and it's the only thing that kills it....I've a really high libido and am ready to go at the drop of a hat but put a condom near me....the conflict is like an underlying thing like what Logicallefty said.....I get an STD test every couple of years and every time I get a clean bill of health (one time I appartently had Chlamedia) I kind of say ok I've got away with it time to start being responsible and start using those raincoats....

I just start thinking about this as yesterday I spoke to two friends.....one that I was out with friday night and another a chick who lives abroad (she's French and a bit of a prude so I like shocking her with my exploits) and both of them "you're going to catch AIDS!!!!!!!"

22 eh? I've had a little bit more than that.....a trip to Cuba in January 2014....banged 8 and used a condom with one. that's probably playing with fire....

I'd a threesome over there (turned out to be 2 putas...I'm not one for paying for it...ego...no way) I got a number from one of them in the street....she wasn't loitering in the street so seemed a "normal girl" (granted prostitution comes in many forms over there) I rang her and invited her for drinks....she came with her friend....her friend left her to the door and went....I said your friend has to go...."no I can call her back", "do it" The insisted on condoms and I said I didn't have any. "what about AIDS?" "I don't have it, what about you" "no" "fvck it" (they asked for cash at the end....)

So it's possible I'm maning it up too much..

Playing with fire.....feels so good without though

 

[Bible_Belt]

It's not really HIV that you have to worry about - the odds of a man catching HIV from a woman through vaginal sex are extremely slim. However, blood-borne diseases like hepatitis are much more common and contagious. They are also spread through needles. A virgin can give you Hep C quite easily. I hardly ever use a condom, but I am very cautious about who I fvck.

My "wrap it up" (or better yet, just put it away) red flags:

• Prostitute (or ever was one)
• Covered in cheap tats, many of them amateur work
  
• Anal sex
• history of hard drug use, any suspicion of ever having shot up
• stupid, trashy, ghetto, too dumb to take care of herself
• likes bi guys, or was ever with one
• travelers or girls who are new in town