"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Marcopolo

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Alot of you seem to be against the idea of long term relationships and marriage, thinking it is better to perpetually play the field. I admit I am not a true "DJ" in the sense that I do want to settle down with the right woman. One thing I wonder about is how many of you use condoms? Frankly, I hate using condoms, but realize it is necessary if I don't want to stay disease free.
To me that a major plus for being in a LTR with the right woman, or even a temporary LTR with a good enough woman. In a LTR you reduce the chances of catching a disease so you don't have to wear a condom. What do other people think of this? Do most of you agree sex is much better without one? Do you always use one in a ONS or a short term physical relationship? If so, don't you wish you did not have to use one?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ALWAYS use one unless:

1) You completely trust your long term girlfriend who is taking the pill
2) You have zero doubt in your mind at all that this woman might use you as an unknowing sperm donor (ie: watch out for single women in their late twenties/early thirties)
3) You have zero doubt in your mind that this woman has any sort of disease.

Basically if you are 100% sure that you wont get an STD and that she won't get pregnant (or try to make herself get pregnant via poking holes/lying about BC) then go for it.

Condomless sex is MUCH better for you and her. But it's completely reserved for an LTR with someone I trust and like a great deal.
 
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Jay Jay

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Yeah, I ALWAYS use em except when:

1. I am in a LTR

2. Am drunk/stoned.

3. I'm too turned on to even remember to slap one on.

JJ.

p.s. Pet hate: wiating for results of STD test to come back.

p.s.s. How good is that feeling of coming out of the Drs with a clean bill? "I'm open for business baby!!!!
 
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ryannath

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Jes, Wilmer has dipped his dink in lots of women. Jo Momma!

I said that in my Wilmer accent.

And yes condoms suck. I can never *** while wearing one. No condom sex feels 10x better.
 
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I can't climax with a rubber on, or maybe I'm just out of shape... lol

I agree with what Kwello said. Although I'm not really and LTR kinda person.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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