Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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condoms?

rocco

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how often do people really use condoms? i have a guess that people who have one night stands, and fuc* buddies dont actually use condoms very often in fact.

when im in the moment of sex i forget about putting on a condom, butonce in awhile i see on tv, about some person that got HIV, it makes me worry a bit. need advice on people and condom use. thanks in advance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah i know that people on here that want to seem responsible, or "say the right thing", will say to use a condom. im just saying realistically, how many people actually use condoms for when they have casual sex? i'm thinking not very often.
 

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Before I started dating my gf, I was banging a few random girls occasionally, and MAYBE I used a condom every other time.

NOT GOOD. I ended up getting a girl PREGNANT. Luckily she got an abortion, but that was not a good experience by any means.

Plus, you're right, you DON'T know what they have.

The thing for me is that I HATE condoms. They make my erection go down and make the pleasure so much less. That's why I never liked to use them, even the "ultra thin" ones.
 

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Before I started dating my gf, I was banging a few random girls occasionally, and MAYBE I used a condom every other time.

NOT GOOD. I ended up getting a girl PREGNANT. Luckily she got an abortion, but that was not a good experience by any means.

Plus, you're right, you DON'T know what they have.

The thing for me is that I HATE condoms. They make my erection go down and make the pleasure so much less. That's why I never liked to use them, even the "ultra thin" ones.
 

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The ultra thin ones work fine for me, but yea best with no rubber feels better ..................... I've been lucky not to catch anything or knock a girl up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donjuanjovi

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The only time I havn't worn a condom has been with long term girlfriends that have been on the pill. I really don't feel like getting herpes or having a donjuanjovi jr. running around.

Durex sensi-thin condoms break easily, don't use them.
 

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donjuanjovi, agree all the way.

If she's a LTR gf and she doesn't get on the pill or depo shot, then dump her.

She'll say, "BUT IT MAKES ME FAT", then say, "I know you like it better without a condom too, and birth control might make you put on a few pounds, but a BABY is going to make you REALLY FAT."
 

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I agree with jovi

The only time I dont use a condom is if im in a serious relationship. Too much scary **** out there
 

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ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! Its not worth the risk and the worry! Your life is far too important than a one night stand! STD is on the rise! You dont know who has it. Its not worth it.

Use well known brand name condoms like Trojan. Be safe brothers!
 

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I always use a condom, even though my long term girlfriend is on the pill and STD free. No form of contraception is 100% guaranteed and I really don't want any accidental pregnancies. Plus using a condom allows me to last much longer!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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