"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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condom usage how safe

joe45

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lets say u wear a condom right how effective is it in preventing diseases, i heard condoms help with vaginal intercourse but not with oral sex-meaning u can get herpes, since it ain;t meant for that.
this is a girl lets say u just pick up from a bar or an escort and u are wearin a condom. are u safe and has any guy here tried either one and how are u now are u clean
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I found this.. doesn't answer all ur questions, but it's a start:

"Laboratory studies have shown that the herpes virus does not pass through latex condoms. When properly used, such condoms are likely to reduce your risk of spreading or getting herpes.
But even the best condoms don't guarantee safety. Sometimes herpes sores occur in places not covered by a condom. In these cases, the condom is of little help, if any. In fact, condoms and foams should not be relied upon when herpes sores or symptoms are present.
Some contraceptive foams contain ingredients (such as nonoxynol-9) that kill the herpes virus and other STDs in test tubes. They are best used along with condoms, not in place of condoms."


source: http://www.herpes.com/Precautions.shtml
 

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H&F...

Try a search, I remember a thread talking about this not too long ago.

As for your question, I've brought home numerous girls from bars - and had an "escort" or two in Amsterdam - and never had any problems with condoms. I'm clean as a whistle!
 

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I've stayed pretty clean all my life by only sleeping with women I know who're clean too :)
 

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they sale oral flavored condoms and give them away at the std clinic.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A condom is extremely effective if you use it properly. There is a small risk, but theres a risk that you might get run over by a bus on your way to work as well, so don't worry about it.
 

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Always always always wrap it up... didn't have quite enough "always'" memorized but you get the idea. They're not 100% but they're close enough. Just make sure to be careful of areas not covered by condomes, especially when dealing with herpes.
 
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