"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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little fella

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What kind of condoms do you guys prefer when having intercourse? :nervous:
I once used those delayed sex ones... numbed my **** so bad i thought it was DEAD! :trouble: Didnt have to ask me to throw them away... I also tried the extra thin ones, and i love them :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I use a plastic-bag, some rubber-bands, vegetable oil and call it a night. :rock:
 

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I seem to recall this exact same thread a few weeks ago...
 

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Trojan Magnum Twisted. Feels good and fit great.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm one of the morons who loves to rawdog and has had a ton of STD preganacy scares

so don't be like me

hmm maybe it's a good thing I'm in an LTR right now
 

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Trojan Shared Pleasure
Trojan Ultra Ribbed
Trojan Twisted Pleasure

I really dislike Durex.

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Road Demon

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Trojan Supra
 

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lol at trojan magnums...impication; "I have a big **** and feel the need to tell people". classy.

Durex extra sensitive for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Trojan ultra ribbed and trojan lubricated.
 

little fella

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i use Trojan also.. and i've been wondering whats the safety difference between extra thin and your average thick condoms?
 

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i prefer rotating colors in my wallet and placing the condom where my license should be. that way when i open my wallet this hb8 that gives me my coffee in the morning looks at me like, "damn, you be getting yourself some." that's right :yes: and if i change the color the next day and pull out my wallet she is gives me a look that says, "damn, you did get yourself some." write that one down. try it with friends or family. it works!

another cool trick is to find a hot chick at the store and have her ring you up for a package of condoms. the very next day (this is important...must be the next day) go back to the very same store and buy another package of condoms. have the same chick ring you up! talk about raising your value. she will think she is missing out on the best experience of her life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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little fella said:
i use Trojan also.. and i've been wondering whats the safety difference between extra thin and your average thick condoms?
Night and day difference.

Trojan supra is polyurethane condom, with great heat transfer. More expensive and not as field tested a latex. These are my favorite. Supras are about the same, roomy dimesions a Trogan Magnum, which are standard thickness latex.

I have broken some ultra thin trojans, as they were a bit too tight.

I don't like the Durex Avanti polyurethane condom.

Crown skinless or Kimono 'maxx' are also very good for latex.
 

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those heating ones, i feel no difference. someone shed the light please?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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