"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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condom question

Berlex

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Do I put on a new condom after I cvm? Or can I continue pumping?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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navyseal2101

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uh you should, and even if you dont cvm, change every 30 mins.
 

comic_relief

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Berlex,

I've done both (pulled out and/or cummed inside of my girlfriend with a condom on) and you will feel better (psychologically) if you pull out. I hate the feeling of "Did it leak or did the condom seal work properly?" It is psychological terror.

Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
every 30 minutes??
why?
Because the condom is so used that it is very easily broke. It happened to me, and luckily I didn't *** or anything because she wasn't on the pill. We've had three pregnancy tests done to make sure nothing happened and they have all come back negative.

Don't be stupid change your condom every twenty-five minutes. I use four condoms a night usually. Be smart and learn from others mistakes (no need to make your own mistakes).

comic_relief
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Charm&Style

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also change the condom if your boner goes away, DO NOT use the same condom!
 
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