"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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condom question

Berlex

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Do I put on a new condom after I cvm? Or can I continue pumping?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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navyseal2101

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uh you should, and even if you dont cvm, change every 30 mins.
 

comic_relief

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Berlex,

I've done both (pulled out and/or cummed inside of my girlfriend with a condom on) and you will feel better (psychologically) if you pull out. I hate the feeling of "Did it leak or did the condom seal work properly?" It is psychological terror.

Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
every 30 minutes??
why?
Because the condom is so used that it is very easily broke. It happened to me, and luckily I didn't *** or anything because she wasn't on the pill. We've had three pregnancy tests done to make sure nothing happened and they have all come back negative.

Don't be stupid change your condom every twenty-five minutes. I use four condoms a night usually. Be smart and learn from others mistakes (no need to make your own mistakes).

comic_relief
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Charm&Style

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also change the condom if your boner goes away, DO NOT use the same condom!
 
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