For those of you that do not know about a womans monthly cycle it is on average 28 days long. The day she starts her period is the day she starts her cycle.
For example...if she has her period on the 6th of the month and it lasts 7 days.... She is now on day 7 of her cycle.
Woman ovulate on the 14th day of their cycle. This is the danger zone for sex. If you don't want to be hearing daddy daddy months down the road at least.
Sperm lives 2-3 days on average if in the appropriate climate...longer if everything is perfect...up to 5 days I believe.
With this being said, sex from day 10-18 of the cycle should probably be avoided if you are really worried about getting her pregnant...of course this is just my opinion.
Sometimes that just is not the case. We were both horny and did it on day 10 or 11 of her cycle. I wore a condom as usual...she is not on any form of birth control...she is getting on the pill soon. We were doing it doggy style for a while, and when I got towards the end I was going pretty hard into her. I stopped to make sure condom was on and not broke before I came.
Pulled out slowly as usual holding the base of the condom and noticed that the reservoir tip was stretched out over the head of my penis. In other words there was no space for the semen to go once I ejaculated....so it had to go around the head and down the sides of the condom.
Nothing looked wrong aside from that. No semen slipped out of the base of the condom to my knowledge....but maybe it did because of how hard I was thrusting while I came.
I checked the condom for holes by putting water in it and squeezing it and such to make sure nothing got out.
So basically condom did not break rip or tear...but the reservoir tip was expanded over the tip of my penis forcing semen to be collected in an area other then the little nipple that should be at the top of the condom when you ejaculate.
It was a spermicidal condom too.
Day 14 rolled around and she said she was sitting in class and got really bad cramps for a few minutes. Then it turned into just dull pain for a while. Day 15, 16, and 17 she still has mild cramps and a bad spell of cramps here and there.
Thing is she gets these every month....but it is usually a week before she starts bleeding.
Every couple months she gets cramps early it seems...if I can remember correctly at least. And when she takes a p00p they go away for the most part. They go away for her if she p00ps now also.
So I am just wondering if anybody has experiences such as mine?? Any insight or input to add to help me stop worrying. It seems like she is pregnant and showing very early signs of it...either that or my mind is playing tricks on me.
I'm going bonkers!!
For example...if she has her period on the 6th of the month and it lasts 7 days.... She is now on day 7 of her cycle.
Woman ovulate on the 14th day of their cycle. This is the danger zone for sex. If you don't want to be hearing daddy daddy months down the road at least.
Sperm lives 2-3 days on average if in the appropriate climate...longer if everything is perfect...up to 5 days I believe.
With this being said, sex from day 10-18 of the cycle should probably be avoided if you are really worried about getting her pregnant...of course this is just my opinion.
Sometimes that just is not the case. We were both horny and did it on day 10 or 11 of her cycle. I wore a condom as usual...she is not on any form of birth control...she is getting on the pill soon. We were doing it doggy style for a while, and when I got towards the end I was going pretty hard into her. I stopped to make sure condom was on and not broke before I came.
Pulled out slowly as usual holding the base of the condom and noticed that the reservoir tip was stretched out over the head of my penis. In other words there was no space for the semen to go once I ejaculated....so it had to go around the head and down the sides of the condom.
Nothing looked wrong aside from that. No semen slipped out of the base of the condom to my knowledge....but maybe it did because of how hard I was thrusting while I came.
I checked the condom for holes by putting water in it and squeezing it and such to make sure nothing got out.
So basically condom did not break rip or tear...but the reservoir tip was expanded over the tip of my penis forcing semen to be collected in an area other then the little nipple that should be at the top of the condom when you ejaculate.
It was a spermicidal condom too.
Day 14 rolled around and she said she was sitting in class and got really bad cramps for a few minutes. Then it turned into just dull pain for a while. Day 15, 16, and 17 she still has mild cramps and a bad spell of cramps here and there.
Thing is she gets these every month....but it is usually a week before she starts bleeding.
Every couple months she gets cramps early it seems...if I can remember correctly at least. And when she takes a p00p they go away for the most part. They go away for her if she p00ps now also.
So I am just wondering if anybody has experiences such as mine?? Any insight or input to add to help me stop worrying. It seems like she is pregnant and showing very early signs of it...either that or my mind is playing tricks on me.
I'm going bonkers!!